My current mess :(

Piesank said:
Okay so you hope the child isn't yours but what will you do if it is? No use criticizing her alone if it is your because it takes two to make the thing go right.
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If it is mine, I will be there for my kid no matter what the mother did to me.

It is my blood and I would never abandon my child.
 
ghostbuster said:
normally morning sickness starts around 8/9 weeks so hopefully your in the clear
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I hope so, she started getting morning sickness badly after leaving here 2 weeks ago so I really do hope I am in the clear.

I have so much hate for her right now there are no words.

I just hope that it's not my child so that I never have speak to her ever again.

Did I mention we dated for 4 years, all that time, who knows what she was really doing behind my back.
 
I've gone down this damn road before as well. Its a really schitty feeling. Knowing you can now do nothing until you know the result of the paternity test.

Anon123 said:
The first time we slept together when she came to visit was roughly 2.5-3 wks ago, she is already getting serious morning sickness and has been for the last 2 weeks surely if it was me or my bastard ex-friend surely it would take a little longer for symptoms to develop? the clinic reckons she is 8 wks already by calculating when she had her last period so I am optimistic but scared ****less!
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Woman can feel as soon as a day after conception took place. Her body is already making preparations for the baby.

GreGorGy said:
Think he means the blood tests will pinpoint conception, which he can then use as a gauge.
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Pregnancy is calculated from the first date of last period. He will have a rough idea of when conception could possibly have taken place by asking her when the first day was of her last period....which she'll lie about anyway.

Also DNA tests won't be able to tell conception date.
 
That's the best approach.
Problem is, she is going to inevitably **** you around for life now.
Be it school fees or clothing for your possible child.

She sounds downright dishonest and will just line you up for inevitable pain

But on the plus side, you may have an amazing kid.
 
My wife was really pissed off that I didn't fix the hand railing by the stairs.

Ah well, wasn't ready to be a dad yet anyway.
 
Anon123 said:
If it is mine, I will be there for my kid no matter what the mother did to me.

It is my blood and I would never abandon my child.
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That I believe is the right way, I honestly don't have much empathy for someone who has unprotected sex then moan when there is a pregnancy scare.

Good one anon.
 
Sorry bud, sounds like a crap situation for you. Hopefully the baby ain't yours and you can move on.
 
OP, on the lighter side, you're about to embark on a journey on which you'll become an expert on pregnancy! :p
 
GreGorGy said:
DNA test < Blood Tests. He said blood tests. I stand corrected (it has been a few years since my last) but blood tests can more accurately determine the timeframe of conception.
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Oh, you mean the test to confirm the actual pregnancy. Apologies!

My point still stands though. If the first day of her last period was 01 November and he shaged her on the 12, she'd be pregnant 25 days today, not 14.

So its a bit difficult to calculate conception date.
 
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fts...! that's hectic dude, sorry man. well, dust yourself off and get on with it...
One of my ex's cheated got pregnant and only now realizes what a way better guy I am...
 
YingYang said:
Oh, you mean the test to confirm the actual pregnancy. Apologies!

My point still stands though. If the first day of her last period was 01 November and he shaged her on the 12, she'd be pregnant 25 days today, not 17.

So its a bit difficult to calculate conception date.
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Ja - I think we're on the same page now. Googled a bit (should've probably done that first :D)- the blood tests are for some or other hormone counts. These can put a better window on the conception - but nothing near 100%. so, wait the 8 or so months left and make double-sure is the only path OP can take.
 
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