MickeyD
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Sorry but I have no sympathy for her. Tell her to get stuffed (again, by somebody else. Again).
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Am I the only one who thinks this chick didn't go to CPT for studies 
. maybe I am just being a cynic, but i have been around the block a few times.
Anywhere, I think she did you a favour, imagine finding out these things after you had decided to marry. Or you could have raise your "friend's" child thinking its your own...only to discover later in life.
BTW the least of your worries should be weather its your child or not, you could be HIV+ for all we know. You don't really know what she was up to down in CPT.
RULE OF THUMB: If she is prepared to have unprotected sex with you them run for your life, she has probably done it with other guys.
. maybe I am just being a cynic, but i have been around the block a few times. Anywhere, I think she did you a favour, imagine finding out these things after you had decided to marry. Or you could have raise your "friend's" child thinking its your own...only to discover later in life.
BTW the least of your worries should be weather its your child or not, you could be HIV+ for all we know. You don't really know what she was up to down in CPT.
RULE OF THUMB: If she is prepared to have unprotected sex with you them run for your life, she has probably done it with other guys.
OGroteKoning
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So I go into Pick 'n Pay and they have tampons on sale with red bells on the strings. I ask the manager WTF? and he replies they're for the christmas period.
And no, it is not enough. Arthur's premise - while respectful and honorable and all that - is simply not realistic anymore and it is terribly naive. But this is not the thread for that debate...
Indeed - lets get back on topic
OP I'm shocked to read what you experienced. OMW I'm sorry what your trusty friend doing behind your back 
REAL FRIEND will never screw up your girl. First let see who the father is then if it not your, you can decide to remove your friend and girl from your life and move on.
REAL FRIEND will never screw up your girl. First let see who the father is then if it not your, you can decide to remove your friend and girl from your life and move on.Arthur
Honorary Master
Like the current Oz PM. DNA testing helps. But you might not want to risk it.
OGroteKoning
Honorary Master
So I go into Pick 'n Pay and they have tampons on sale with red bells on the strings. I ask the manager WTF? and he replies they're for the christmas period.
And no, it is not enough. Arthur's premise - while respectful and honorable and all that - is simply not realistic anymore and it is terribly naive. But this is not the thread for that debate...
Indeed - lets get back on topic
Nerfherder
Honorary Master
No, actually this thread is reason no 1 why you try before you buy.
Lionsheart
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Hi. Sorry to hear about this. Will take almost 2 years to get over something like this if you lucky. Make sure if the child is yours or not. If not, then cut all and every single tie you have with her. Never evens reply to a message in any form evens if it is a "hello" otherwise this crappy feeling will stay with you much longer.
Im am sure you have a lot of questions for her but don't bother with them. She will tell half truths and mostly lie. Trusting someone ever again will be the hardest to overcome.
Who knows, maybe she knew she was pregnant and wanted to make it yours. Some chicks are that dumb.
All the best to you and hope evening works out for you
Im am sure you have a lot of questions for her but don't bother with them. She will tell half truths and mostly lie. Trusting someone ever again will be the hardest to overcome.
Who knows, maybe she knew she was pregnant and wanted to make it yours. Some chicks are that dumb.
All the best to you and hope evening works out for you
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BS! She is pregnant and had to come clean - now she is picking the best person from those she slept with as a partner??!!!
LOL, maybe i watch too many movies, where the father only finds out 20 + years down the line that the kid is not his..
akescpt
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looks like you dodged a bullet. she had lotsa sperm swimming around. she comes across as a bit of a hoe. let it go. if its not yours then just move on.
Y'all Qaeda
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Fsck that.. After you have ascertained that it isn't yours, then, once it has been born you go out every night and send her pics of your awesome times. Also, phone her at weird hours and ask:"Sorry, did you wake. Baby beat me to it ey?"
After a very stressful day I have realized that all I can do is wait till the baby comes, yes she is going to the doctor on Monday and if he says she is 8wks preganant (like she claims) I will feel better as then there is no way it was me. Either way I am going to ask her to get a paternity test when the baby comes.
She is going to tell the guy who's baby she thinks it is that she is pregnant and I assume this guy will help out with the doc's visit ect. but it will be a real kick in the balls if it's not even his and only finds out 9 months later.
Not even sure if she is going to tell this guy about me or my ex-friend.
And finally made a app for an HIV test tommorrow so holding thumbs that all comes out my way.
Thanks for all the messages of support made me feel a lot better.
She is going to tell the guy who's baby she thinks it is that she is pregnant and I assume this guy will help out with the doc's visit ect. but it will be a real kick in the balls if it's not even his and only finds out 9 months later.
Not even sure if she is going to tell this guy about me or my ex-friend.
And finally made a app for an HIV test tommorrow so holding thumbs that all comes out my way.
Thanks for all the messages of support made me feel a lot better.
OGroteKoning
Honorary Master
Don't stress ... things will happen with or without you stressing. Take it as it comes and deal with it on that basis. The forumites on here might not be able to assist you directly, but if you need to vent or discuss stuff here, feel free.
By the way, you misspelled tomorrow
The_Ogre
Honorary Master
Maybe some of your sperms was in her kuku while this other guy's sperms was in there. So maybe the baby will be half yours and half his.
That means you'll you'll only pay half the maintenance money!
Win-win
That means you'll you'll only pay half the maintenance money!
Win-win
OGroteKoning
Honorary Master
Oh ... this is goooooooood ... mean but GOOOOOOOOOD!!
OrbitalDawn
Ulysses Everett McGill
Sounds like you have an awesome life.
Don't stress ... things will happen with or without you stressing. Take it as it comes and deal with it on that basis. The forumites on here might not be able to assist you directly, but if you need to vent or discuss stuff here, feel free.
By the way, you misspelled tomorrow
Lulz you probably had to write something nice just so that you can get that grammar nazi OCD in check.
B+ for effort
If this makes you feel any better dude.
http://www.women24.com/LoveAndSex/S...xual-partners-have-doubled-since-90s-20131126
http://www.women24.com/LoveAndSex/S...xual-partners-have-doubled-since-90s-20131126
nice theory to console OP.
The_Ogre
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Just trying to have him lighten up a bit
