My first scary gay experience

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Hello everyone. I created another username to post this under as it is a little embarrasing, but would like some input from forum members, especially the gay ones or straight people that is into "rougher things"

Just going to make it short. Hooked up with a guy for the first time last night after being curious for a long time. Afterwards, we were just lying on our backs talking when he rolled on top of me, pinched my nose closed and put his hand over my mouth. I started laughing thinking he was playing. When I ran out of breath and saw he was not lauging with me, I started to panic. He is really big and muscular so I was no match and could hardly move.

He saw I was getting really scared I guess because he then stopped and gave a peck kiss, ruffled my hair and said I must trust him.

Is rough play like that common?
 

Electric

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I must just say, if you're starting your relationship by building trust with fear, it can only end well.
 

Datura

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Sorry about that dude. Just wanted to prove that you can trust me.
 

WaxLyrical

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Dont worry boet its just gay play but when he brings out the choke chain run for the ****in hills.

:erm:
 

Ninja'd

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Replace the guy with a big girl and covering my face with her one boob instead of a hand and basically you have the story of how I lost my virginity.
 
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I must just say, if you're starting your relationship by building trust with fear, it can only end well.

You have a point. It did leave me very shaken. A discussion with him about it would be the next step I suppose.

I am just wondering if this was maybe his way of testing the waters and seeing how I would react to something like this.
 

LCBXX

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1st post on a tech/comms thread forum about scary being bashed around by a gay guy. Well done.
 
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