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I made a fake profile simply due to fact I don't want people to know I am washing my laundry in public .

Ok where to start off , I am currently having a heated battle with the wife and I consider this my venting session . The whole argument consists of financial freedom , lazyiness and the old mother in law.

Domestic worker : I feel that we don't really need a domestic worker 3 days a week (3 bed 2 bath 1 lounge 1 kitchen) and that we could simply clean , do laundry ourselves . But the wife insists it's to much work for her

DStv : I can't even remember how many times we have had this argument about canceling dstv or simply scaling it down to a smaller package . The tv is permantely occupied by the wife and mother in law who put up a big fuss every time I want to cancel the damn thing . I mean I don't even get to use it considering there is always some drama or something that they have to watch .

Wife : Everything in life is so much work accompanied by complaints . I ask her to run a few simple arrends(get food for the house and what not ) and in return I get how tired she is (keep in mind she hasn't worked since the day we got married) right before planting herself in front of the tv or checking Facebook . It's a daily battle to get her to cook anything resulting in every fast food company in the area knowing my name (gained 8kg this year alone)

Mother in law : I got a promise she was simply visiting 2 years ago and until this day she hasn't left occupying my guest bedroom . We simply don't get along due to fact she reinforces my wife's behavior , eating my food and simply costing extra money (easily put she resembles a cross between a cockroach and a rat)

How would you resolve this ?
 
Your wife is a lazy assed biatch with backup.
Your house your rules FIFO.
 
I made a fake profile simply due to fact I don't want people to know I am washing my laundry in public .

Ok where to start off , I am currently having a heated battle with the wife and I consider this my venting session . The whole argument consists of financial freedom , lazyiness and the old mother in law.

Domestic worker : I feel that we don't really need a domestic worker 3 days a week (3 bed 2 bath 1 lounge 1 kitchen) and that we could simply clean , do laundry ourselves . But the wife insists it's to much work for her

DStv : I can't even remember how many times we have had this argument about canceling dstv or simply scaling it down to a smaller package . The tv is permantely occupied by the wife and mother in law who put up a big fuss every time I want to cancel the damn thing . I mean I don't even get to use it considering there is always some drama or something that they have to watch .

Wife : Everything in life is so much work accompanied by complaints . I ask her to run a few simple arrends(get food for the house and what not ) and in return I get how tired she is (keep in mind she hasn't worked since the day we got married) right before planting herself in front of the tv or checking Facebook . It's a daily battle to get her to cook anything resulting in every fast food company in the area knowing my name (gained 8kg this year alone)

Mother in law : I got a promise she was simply visiting 2 years ago and until this day she hasn't left occupying my guest bedroom . We simply don't get along due to fact she reinforces my wife's behavior , eating my food and simply costing extra money (easily put she resembles a cross between a cockroach and a rat)

How would you resolve this ?

Only children would complicate this. If you do not have children, it's very simple. You earn the money , you make the rules.

Grow a pair of balls FFS !

Domestic worker: Retrench
DSTV: Just cancel it. Don't ask, just do it.
Mother in Law: Give her two months to move out.

Buy your own groceries and cook your own food...for yourself.
If you wife does not earn a cent, cut her off financially.

If you do not do any of the above you are a pu$$y and shouldn't ask for advice on this forum since you are too weak and too scared to take control of your own life.
 
Some of the things you mentioned above are as a result of deeper issues .
Find those issues and fix.

Or, if you don't want to do that , buy a fishing rod and Faark off from that situation
 
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Ever considered your wife has depression?
Either you want to make your marriage work, then you need to seek marriage councillor or you need to reconsider your marriage.
 
Only children would complicate this. If you do not have children, it's very simple. You earn the money , you make the rules.

Grow a pair of balls FFS !

Domestic worker: Retrench
DSTV: Just cancel it. Don't ask, just do it.
Mother in Law: Give her two months to move out.

Buy your own groceries and cook your own food...for yourself.
If you wife does not earn a cent, cut her off financially.

If you do not do any of the above you are a pu$$y and shouldn't ask for advice on this forum since you are too weak and too scared to take control of your own life.

Can't starve the wife as it would be considered abuse.

Can't kick out the mother in law as she is a resident there now. Will have to go through the courts.
 
You know what you have to do , you just either do not want the conflict that goes along with what you have to do or you are waiting for one of those times when a huge argument comes along and then all the shyt you should have said gets blurted out in anger .
Your resentment is growing and it will eventually get sorted , i suggest you write a list of what is good in your marriage and what is bad then think about it and take the appropriate action .
Your situation will blow up one way or another .
 
Before you move out check the law. It might be interpreted as desertion.
 
Go ahead and starve your wife and come back here and report what happens to you

Hahahaha..."starve your wife". Have you lost it completely?

Will OP be tying her up in the basement until she starves to death? That is the only way the law can get involved. Otherwise, if she's hungry she can ask help from relatives, friends or even beg on the street.

If I buy my own food and cook and eat it, it's my business. The police will laugh at her.
 
Hahahaha..."starve your wife". Have you lost it completely?

Will OP be tying her up in the basement until she starves to death? That is the only way the law can get involved. Otherwise, if she's hungry she can ask help from relatives, friends or even beg on the street.

If I buy my own food and cook and eat it, it's my business. The police will laugh at her.
Lol please try it. Please.
 
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