My roomate and his GF

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Wezzy777

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Good Day everyone hopefully someone here will have some good advice for me regarding my situation.

First some background info - I bought an apartment roughly 2 years ago and about a year ago I asked my friend to move in with me we were both single at the time.

fast forward a couple of months and my roommate met this girl. In the beginning of their relationship she stayed over a couple of nights a month nothing hectic, kind of did her own thing. now fast forward to today and she hasn’t left since last week sometime.

Now my predicament - I like my roommate he is a good guy and it certainly helps having someone helping out with paying the bills but his girlfriend is staying over so often and I don’t really get along with her, it's awkward when she is around, she can also be really really messy.

How do I nicely say without sounding like a d1ck that I don’t like his girlfriend staying over there as often as she is. I do not mind it when it was a couple of nights a month but this is getting out of hand now and I am too much of a nice guy to just say no when he asks if she can stay over.

I really have enjoyed having a friend stay with me and when she is not there we get along really well but feels like when she is there it is really akward for me.

Should I just straight up tell him that I don't want her to stay over so often?

I want to do this tactfully and don’t want to piss him and his GF off in the process.

Any advice would be appreciated.



TL;DR – How do I tell my roommate I don’t want his GF to stay over so often in a nice way.

Sorry no pics of said GF
 
If she contributed financially, would you be opposed to letting her stay?
 
Is there a room mate agreement in place? What does the cohabitation clause stipulate? :p

Just ignore me, I couldn't help it :whistle:
 
Rickster said:
Haha, I see you are familiar of this forum.


OT, isnt against the lease or rules if someone is constantly staying over for free?
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I am not aware of any such rules.

I bought the apartment, not renting so don't have a lease agreement.
 
Even though you would not like her to stay permanently, tell your flatmate that you're glad his GF moved in as you can now all contribute equally. Ask her to pay you the same amount your friend is paying you. They'll get the message soon enough.
 
Wezzy777 said:
I am not aware of any such rules.

I bought the apartment, not renting so don't have a lease agreement.
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Ok since you are the owner, wright up a lease agreement and make that a rule and make him sign.
 
Viva said:
Even though you would not like her to stay permanently, tell your flatmate that you're glad his GF moved in as you can now all contribute equally. Ask her to pay you the same amount your friend is paying you. They'll get the message soon enough.
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She doesnt have a job, I think doing this might seem a little harsh.
 
not to be obvious, but have an honest, open talk to your room-mate? I mean, what's the worst that can happen? If things don't change, one of you is gonna have to move out anyway.
 
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