Need some advice please

BrianStephan

BrianStephan

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Going to make this short. I went out with a girl for 3 years she dropped me for my best friend almost 4 years ago not in the best way u can imagine over mxit. Havent seen her in 4 years and broke off contact about a year ago. Now there is just something that is keeping me from letting this go I dont know what it is. I have a new g/f have been going out for a year now. Need some advice from ppl looking outside the box where I can only look from the inside.
 
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Mxit? She dumped you over mxit... ha ha ha. You are better off without her. Try to remember the things she did that you found unappealing and every time you think of her, think of those.... then she won't seem as appealing.

You shouldn't be dating someone new if you haven't gotten over your ex, as its not fair to the new girl as you are going to constantly compare her to something "better".

Also rebounds shouldn't last a year....
 
WTF?

Since when did Mybb become a emo hotline for help?

The "She's not the one" thread started this....

I blame bex.
 
I dont have any feelings for her no and I am not moaning I am asking for advice there is a huge diffrence.
 
Madman88 said:
WTF?

Since when did Mybb become a emo hotline for help?

The "She's not the one" thread started this....

I blame bex.
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Health, Wealth, Leisure and Relationships

mxit is a stupid tool to be "working" on relationships with, huge misunderstandings are inevitable. She dropped you for someone else already, that means "she's not that into you" get over it already.
 
The line between pleasure and pain, can't be measured by means of the brain.
Meer reason alone can never explain how the heart behaves.

Goes to a catchy tune too. :cool:
 
what do you WANT the answer to be?
firstly, she is a troll, anyone who cant break up face to face is a worthless POS,
secondly, u either still have feelings for her or you want to sabotage your current relationship, either way, u should use the face to face method with ur current G/f.
thirdly, its extremely satisfying getting back together with an ex and repaying the favour.
fourth, if you still try sneak peaks at her FB page etc just to see how she is doing, ur gonna try crawl back to her and get ur crotch kicked in again.

Go be single (for urself and ur current GF), go out, drink beer, meet ppl...u will realise that ur ex can stay safely in ur past.
 
Thanx Tau1z thats y I ask because I dont know what the answer should be or is. Still trying to find the answer after 4 years
 
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I dont want to get back with my ex, have no feelings for her and very happy with my current gf what I am asking is there is something thats stopping me from letting my ex go I have no contact with her havent seen her in 4 years. I want to leave that in the past and move on with my life maybe I didnt get the face to face closure of a relationship 4 years ago who knows.
 
BrianStephan said:
I dont want to get back with my ex, have no feelings for her and very happy with my current gf what I am asking is there is something thats stopping me from letting my ex go I have no contact with her havent seen her in 4 years. I want to leave that in the past and move on with my life maybe I didnt get the face to face closure of a relationship 4 years ago who knows.
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Did u shag the ex?
 
BrianStephan said:
u think so
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No, I'm not thinking of shagging her. ;)
Have my own gf.

I think of my ex's sometimes, but don't miss them. Always start on a clean slate, and don't compare the new to the old. And don't expect them to react the same ways and do the same things.
 
lol! Like I said its just something that prevents me from moving on and that's what I am trying to find so that I can leave all that in the past and get on with my life
 
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