Need some advice..

Kuga said:
So my options are:

16 year old - drop dead gorgeous,super model material 10/10
21 year old - kinda cute but a bit uhm, chunky, I'd say 7/10 from her neck up.
26 year old - very fun chick, but kinda plain looking. 7/10

What would you guys do in my situation?
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All 3, why are you even asking? It's not like you're looking to get married and I doubt they are too.
 
Kuga said:
Dude I shat my load.. please don't do that again :mad: But yar, 10/10 I'd say? What do you say?
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That you probably shouldn't be posting her pic unless she's ok with it.

And she's only 16 - legal or not dont you see the potential barriers?
 
bwana said:
That you probably shouldn't be posting her pic unless she's ok with it.

And she's only 16 - legal or not dont you see the potential barriers?
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If she was older and he was the 16yo I'd say definitely. But we all know women "mature" (I say this tongue in cheek as "mature" means so many different things these days when applied to women) faster than men.

So I'm guessing they're on equal footing, and even if they're not, she can learn from him and he can learn that young women don't know what they want and thus will flip flop :)

Who knows. All I'm saying is that's not much of a difference so give it a go. It's not like he's trying to date a 5yo.... FYI, that's some of the age gaps between married people I've seen before. And no. I'm not saying that is right, just using an example, and of course I know that technically she's still a "kid", but hey... old enough to make her own mistakes and learn from it.

As long as Kuga isn't some kind of date rapist I'm sure they'll do just fine for a while.
 
16 is legal. What is the problem? Conversation? You got your buddies for that.
 
Holy moly ... Mila, you got a guys brain! (a dirty one at that :)!)

I vote we clone tons of chicks with Mila's brains!
 
when you my age, that seven year gap means nix
any emphasis on appearances is shallow but a persons character is very evident in their lifestyle and being grossly flobby has nix to do with inherited appearances, so you need basic wisdom here.
Relationships are precious, make sure you select them based on more meaningful critria than shallow petty guages
not to mention alcohol is not a gonna improve any meaningful relationship's potential either, it is a sure way to stuff up anything no matter how good the intentions, take advise form people who have been there, it is easier than learning the same lessons the hard way, so take a short cut to happiness and take some real advice
 
I suggest you write to YOU magazine like the other kids do, you won't find any advice worth following here.
 
AcidRaZor said:
As long as Kuga isn't some kind of date rapist I'm sure they'll do just fine for a while.
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Nah I ain't. I'm actually a nice guy with a hint of mystery thrown in the mix. And thanks for the vote of confidence

Mila said:
16 is legal. What is the problem? Conversation? You got your buddies for that.
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I suppose, I was just asking for advice, sheesh..


Jenemesis said:
when you my age, that seven year gap means nix
any emphasis on appearances is shallow but a persons character is very evident in their lifestyle and being grossly flobby has nix to do with inherited appearances, so you need basic wisdom here.
Relationships are precious, make sure you select them based on more meaningful critria than shallow petty guages
not to mention alcohol is not a gonna improve any meaningful relationship's potential either, it is a sure way to stuff up anything no matter how good the intentions, take advise form people who have been there, it is easier than learning the same lessons the hard way, so take a short cut to happiness and take some real advice
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You have a point there. I've been single now for 4 months. Had a really beautiful girlfriend personality wise. Things just didn't work out. Don't believe in love anymore so heh, guess I've become one of those shallow guys. My ex was a bit flabby as well, but I didn't mind that, I loved her for who she was, not her physical appearances.

Just_Ice said:
:eek: This is mission control, Kuga, you have been given the go ahead.
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Roger that Houston!

porn$tar said:
I suggest you write to YOU magazine like the other kids do, you won't find any advice worth following here.
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Well, generally mybb has some very wise people, and the sheer amount of members combined with their wisdom = very large pool of wisdom and knowledge.
 
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/I lol'd so hard
I don't know about the legalities/morals about posting pics, you may run into privacy issues if one of those relationships goes south and they're looking for some dirt on you (although big thumbs up on posting them, not many people have got the balls to reply to a 'pics or it didn't happen').
In terms of choice however, 16 year old all the way!
 
Kuga said:
Hey guys,

So last night I went to an aquantinces(sp) dress up party, and she is friends with my ex.

I was expecting my ex to be there so I took a friend with me, way better looking than my ex, to make my ex jealous. I made sure I took someone with that my ex doesn't know that we're just friends.

Long story short, my ex didn't pitch up. Took my friend home, she was quite trashed, and she kissed me... Oh, and she's 16, I'm 23 :erm:

I went back to the party, was too drunk to drive again so I ended up sleeping there. I erm, slept in the same bed as my ex's friend, didn't do anything though. Today I asked her out for coffee during the week some time. I think she's around 26 or so.

To make things more complicated, the chick I slept with about 3 months ago as a rebound, now wants to be friends with benefits. And she's 21.

My dilemma has now gone from having 0 options to 3 in a space of 24 hours. I didn't know my friend that's 16 liked me that way, and I think she wants to date me buuuuut I think there's laws against that..

So my options are:

16 year old - drop dead gorgeous,super model material 10/10
21 year old - kinda cute but a bit uhm, chunky, I'd say 7/10 from her neck up.
26 year old - very fun chick, but kinda plain looking. 7/10

What would you guys do in my situation?
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Why not?
d)all of the above
 
Chicken Murderer. Dude, She could have been your sister, Shame on you for Trashing her as well , under age drinking is very bad,
 
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