I guess i'm way to trusting.
Got the AxessTel PST and aparently it can work. a little nervous to try, cause i may mess up the connection, but i'm also desperate as having a neoflex router without the router is like having prime connect.
Thanks jeanres, much appreciated. I'm so keen to have one last crack at fixing this myself. so far it's only been a month with a half working device. but hell not sure how much longer i can wait