I felt like you are feeling now and thencI headed over to the digitalbarber.co.za and bought a "start up" kit.
The service was beyond excellent. With the start up kit I ordered feathers blades which I would not recommend for a beginner, my face got a beating with those blades. I switched to cheap cheap Super Max blades (R13 from clicks) and it is awesome!!
Just note that it takes a while to get the stroke and pressure etc 100% right but when you do its Godly and I will never go back to the ****ty 3 blade or 28 blade gilette or what have you razors.
I struggle my whole shaving life with ingrow hairs and since shaving with the DE razor I have not had 1 ingrow hair.
Take a look at some youtube videos to see how to lather your soap, pressure, stroke etc. The more you watch the more you would want to shave with a DE razor.
The soap and after shave balm can also be bought from Digital Barber which I plan on doing soon.
Do it and trust me you will never look back!