Open relationship with your partner

Do you do it and tell

  • 1. Yes, full disclosure

    Votes: 12 17.4%

  • 2. Yes, but keep it secret

    Votes: 2 2.9%

  • 3. No, don't ever do it

    Votes: 52 75.4%

  • 4. Other- please tell

    Votes: 3 4.3%
  • Total voters
    69
Baxteen said:
not livign as a Quad yet, but we are moving in together soon. wife and I are moving into the new house dec 1st, otehr couple will be moving in over december, they only have to be out of the current place end of Dec.


for calrity, we are 2 couples, but there is nothing between me and the other guy and no interest in it happening.
for the past 2 years the 4 of us have spent every weekend, and sometimes more together. either all 4 of us in 1 house or a swap weekend. there have been like 6 "couples" weekends where we did not visit each other or swap completely in the past 2 years.

too much debauchery to talk about on an open forum, but just know everyone is happy.
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All consenting adults and you guys are happy. Nothing wrong with it. Anyone that judges, well, that is their problem if they lose sleep over something that happens in your house behind closed doors.
 
Ockie said:
All consenting adults and you guys are happy. Nothing wrong with it. Anyone that judges, well, that is their problem if they lose sleep over something that happens in your house behind closed doors.
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exactly. its our life and we will live it the way we want and enjoy it the way we want.

opinions are like genitals. everyone has them, but if you want someone to share it you will ask right?
 
I have never been in a traditional relationship, and didn't even plan to have a primary partner. It just happened that I ended up with someone who is a perfect fit.
We are more like two slightly bi guys than a normal couple though. On the other hand, there is no easy way to explain our dynamic. But she actively enjoys it when I play with others, and our taste in people aligns quite well.
 
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Baxteen said:
not livign as a Quad yet, but we are moving in together soon. wife and I are moving into the new house dec 1st, otehr couple will be moving in over december, they only have to be out of the current place end of Dec.


for calrity, we are 2 couples, but there is nothing between me and the other guy and no interest in it happening.
for the past 2 years the 4 of us have spent every weekend, and sometimes more together. either all 4 of us in 1 house or a swap weekend. there have been like 6 "couples" weekends where we did not visit each other or swap completely in the past 2 years.

too much debauchery to talk about on an open forum, but just know everyone is happy.
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no no we want to hear the debauchery, you've left so much out... this is interesting and fascinating to say the least
 
Whatever suites your lifestyle and works, go with it. My Partner & I partake in the "lifestyle" as we call it. But very particular about who and what. If you're an adult with desires hidden from your partner, you will never have a fully satisfied sex life and always feel for a better word "trapped" and frustrated.
 
I'm a "disappointing one woman" kinda guy.
Besides, 2 divided by 2 don't go.
 
Ockie said:
All consenting adults and you guys are happy. Nothing wrong with it. Anyone that judges, well, that is their problem if they lose sleep over something that happens in your house behind closed doors.
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Exactly this. If your relationship is open or not, it has nothing to do with anyone else except those within the consenting relationship. As long as everyone involved is happy, then that's all that matters.
 
Ockie said:
Perhaps she does have one. But that is not going to really satisfy the urge to be with a man at times for a man that is bisexual. He is open about it with his wife and she seems OK with it from what I understand with him satisfying his needs when he needs too. No problem with that. Good for her for being open minded and understanding if you ask me.
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My Estrogen levels rose after reading that
 
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