Open relationship with your partner

Do you do it and tell

  • 1. Yes, full disclosure

    Votes: 12 17.4%

  • 2. Yes, but keep it secret

    Votes: 2 2.9%

  • 3. No, don't ever do it

    Votes: 52 75.4%

  • 4. Other- please tell

    Votes: 3 4.3%
  • Total voters
    69
semaphore said:
What an edgy analysis.
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Lolz, did you change your avatar just for this thread? :ROFL:

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Baxteen said:
nah dude, alpha means first version of software. there is no such thing as an alpha male, there is just sad incels who want an excuse to display their misogyny.

people who use the term alpha male are the kind of people who think having children is a good thing, and that is just sad.
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Alphas very much exist in nature. It's a leader. Put a group of strangers in a room and observe. I'm not saying it will always be a man(given that testosterone causes more risk taking and ambition, it will sway that way).

Incel and misogyny have been thrown around for years but often in the wrong context. Make sure you know the definition, person and situation before use.

Your dislike of having children is concerning. It's the very process that resulted in your existence. Please don't hate yourself that much. We still believe there is hope for you, buddy. I'm not saying you should have children but it would be nice if you understand it plays a role in having a functioning society.
 
randomcat said:
Alphas very much exist in nature. It's a leader. Put a group of strangers in a room and observe. I'm not saying it will always be a man(given that testosterone causes more risk taking and ambition, it will sway that way).

Incel and misogyny have been thrown around for years but often in the wrong context. Make sure you know the definition, person and situation before use.

Your dislike of having children is concerning. It's the very process that resulted in your existence. Please don't hate yourself that much. We still believe there is hope for you, buddy. I'm not saying you should have children but it would be nice if you understand it plays a role in having a functioning society.
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The irony is he's trying to act all alpha at the same time.
 
randomcat said:
Hakuna matata bru but there is still a king
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You probably aren't wrong and if this was a three-way thing with two guys and one woman living together it would almost certainly be a problem.

Far easier for two women and a guy arrangement in that regard.

But in Baxsteen's case where it's more of a 2+2 thing I'm not so sure the same thing still applies.

However that being said if I were to enter into such an arrangement I would need to build a house specifically for the purpose that is setup like two houses with a communal area of sorts.
 
Thinking about it in a non-living together and/or pomping situation the kak almost always starts when the second woman enters the existing social construct.

Thinking about my wife and I and having had a few longterm male friends over the years it's always the new girlfriend that either makes or breaks it and is the biggest hill to get over.

Probably why in this case where it's two existing couples coming together things have panned out a lot more smoothly.
 
SauRoNZA said:
You probably aren't wrong and if this was a three-way thing with two guys and one woman living together it would almost certainly be a problem.
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I've been there. It's okay if everyone is comfortable in their own role. In our case it just evolved naturally.
 
Brian_G said:
I've been there. It's okay if everyone is comfortable in their own role. In our case it just evolved naturally.
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Been there too and while it's purely sexy time it's not a problem, it's when it evolves into more of a relationship that it became a sticking point.

Not a disaster mind you, but just friction that to be honest is easier to simply live without.
 
SauRoNZA said:
Been there too and while it's purely sexy time it's not a problem, it's when it evolves into more of a relationship that it became a sticking point.

Not a disaster mind you, but just friction that to be honest is easier to simply live without.
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I'll admit it's sometimes challenging, but we have thought worth that.
 
Brian_G said:
I'll admit it's sometimes challenging, but we have thought worth that.
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Yeah it's going to be different for everyone and completely circumstantial at that.

My point of view far easier with two women in the mix than two guys.
 
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