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I experience it once during my first year. I remember I cried on the phone when I spoke to my dad while I were experiencing it. I felt like a total loser afterwards.
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This sounds absolutely terrible. my one friend seems to be avoiding places we go more and more and he tends to 'panic' abit when we go out.i always feel sad for him but im too scared to ask him or question him...but ive told him if he needs help he can talk to me.but the way you described it sounds similar to the way he just locks/freezes up,needs to sit for 10 minutes without talking and then he just leavesits wierd....
http://www.atclinic.co.za/
The above clinic is AWESOME. They don't believe in medication & they get to the "root" of the problem. If you are in JHB (Sandton) & you want help, call them.
Hanan Bushkin is the gents name.
I don't knock counseling, I think counseling is a great healing tool. I just think people should realise that this is often a biological illness at play
By him giving into a negative core belief (something bad is going to happen) it reinforces the fact that he feels out of control. It's not going to be easy for him but he needs to take smaller steps & push his comfort zone just a bit, pushing it very far & walking amongst big crowds can only cause more damage & therefore make his comfort zone a lot smaller.
It's not a nice thing to live with & if he wants to get over it (completely), he needs to understand what his body is doing & why it's doing it.
To try and push boundaries while being affected by a serious mental illness is something that should only be attempted when you have the active support of someone knowledgeable in the field of your disorder, someone who knows what you are doing and can help you doing it.
Seriously, to tell this dude "no, you must try harder for your own good" is a baaaad idea. no offense buddy