Kloofvreter
Honorary Master
LOL awesome!
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of course it is!
my best "man" at my wedding was a woman. a really, really close friend. sure, i realise she is a woman, and she is attractive, but i am perfectly happy being "only" friends with her. the occasional physical desire for her that i experience is hardly going to make me jump her!
she is also married, and very happily so. she has no desire to jump me either (and i'm not dog-ugly or anything).
our interactions are platonic, and being mature adults, whenever the slightest bit of attraction makes itself felt, we deal with it by not allowing it to influence how we treat each other.
one of my most treasured relationships![]()