Zewp
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Sorry if I'm not allowed to post threads of this nature here, but if it goes against the rules, a mod may feel free to delete it. I just have a very pressing concern atm.
So, I lost my virginity Friday night. Went pretty much as I expected it would, short and over before I even knew what was going on. I lasted maybe 2 or 3 minutes. We did it two more times that night, however, and the second time I lasted slightly shorter than the first time, which was weird, as I was under the impression the second time should go better. Later that night I tried once again and was barely in before it was all over, which left me embarassed and her visibly disappointed. We went to sleep after that.
We tried again on Saturday before going home, and this time it was also over in a matter of seconds.
This seems slightly strange to me, as as far as I'm concerned, it should start lasting longer, not shorter, the more you do it. It really concerns me and I spke to a married friend about it and he reckons I might just have been a little too excited. I'm not entirely sure whether this could be the case, so I'd rather ask here. Does anybody know whether this might be premature ejaculation I'm suffering from or is this a lot more normal than I think? I'd hate to be known as a ten second guy at the age of 19, but finding proper help via google seems very hard, as most sources differ in advice.
Does anybody have any opinions or advice on how to help with this embarrasing problem? Anybody have advice they know works and have tested themselves, perhaps?
So, I lost my virginity Friday night. Went pretty much as I expected it would, short and over before I even knew what was going on. I lasted maybe 2 or 3 minutes. We did it two more times that night, however, and the second time I lasted slightly shorter than the first time, which was weird, as I was under the impression the second time should go better. Later that night I tried once again and was barely in before it was all over, which left me embarassed and her visibly disappointed. We went to sleep after that.
We tried again on Saturday before going home, and this time it was also over in a matter of seconds.
This seems slightly strange to me, as as far as I'm concerned, it should start lasting longer, not shorter, the more you do it. It really concerns me and I spke to a married friend about it and he reckons I might just have been a little too excited. I'm not entirely sure whether this could be the case, so I'd rather ask here. Does anybody know whether this might be premature ejaculation I'm suffering from or is this a lot more normal than I think? I'd hate to be known as a ten second guy at the age of 19, but finding proper help via google seems very hard, as most sources differ in advice.
Does anybody have any opinions or advice on how to help with this embarrasing problem? Anybody have advice they know works and have tested themselves, perhaps?
