Premature ejaculation.

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Sex is overrated. Unless its with your fantasy partner. But that never happens because then its no fantasy, and you cant help but notice the hairy mole on the left cheek of an otherwise perfectly wobbling beeehind.
 
stricken said:
Sex is overrated. Unless its with your fantasy partner. But that never happens because then its no fantasy, and you cant help but notice the hairy mole on the left cheek of an otherwise perfectly wobbling beeehind.
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As I always say, the only people who believe sex isn't an issue are those who aren't getting any. :P
 
Graal said:
As I always say, the only people who believe sex isn't an issue are those who aren't getting any. :P
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So it clearly isn't a big issue for your chick, seeing as she isn't getting much either.
 
If you wanna last longer, get condoms called "performer" or something like that. It kinda anesthetizes your wang so that you can last ages :p
 
Ono'rach said:
If you wanna last longer, get condoms called "performer" or something like that. It kinda anesthetizes your wang so that you can last ages :p
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that's like using wheelies on a tricycle.
 
Sting said:
Nou's jy grootbek !!!! Bwahahahaha!
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Shake&Bake said:
Big words from someone whose just started getting some...
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I didn't say I was perfect either. :P

Voicy said:
So it clearly isn't a big issue for your chick, seeing as she isn't getting much either.
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This one made me cringe a little, but I deserved it nontheless. :P

Either way, we've got a very open relationship, so we can easily speak about things like these (the joy of being best friends for four years before falling in love with each other). I just often feel that she doesn't always voice her true feelings for fear of hurting mine. I'll have a decent chat to her about it, though. I'm not going to let my low stamina ruin this relationship.
 
Dont worry to much about it! Stress can kill both your moods during sex..
Foreplay is definite a must, especially if you stress about trying to pleasure your lady friend during sex.! I find it makes it a lot more enjoyable for both if she's happy first.
Pleasure her during foreplay then she won't be sad if you only last a short while. And use condoms (regular not those extra sensitive) Durex flavored are my girls favorite :D I find doms make me last a lot longer as well...

GL man
 
Ono'rach said:
If you wanna last longer, get condoms called "performer" or something like that. It kinda anesthetizes your wang so that you can last ages :p
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Somebody actually suggested desensitizing cream to me, but I find that this ruins the entire point of sex, which is to be enjoyable for both partners. Also, if it is premature ejaculation I'm suffering from, it'd only be a temporary solution for me.
 
Just slow down or stop for a second when you're about to cum. Sometimes you can still cum a bit when you do that but you'll find you can carry on a couple of seconds later.
You can practice this technique with some vaseline and your hand...

And maybe just go slower in general. You've also got a tongue..
 
Graal said:
Somebody actually suggested desensitizing cream to me, but I find that this ruins the entire point of sex, which is to be enjoyable for both partners. Also, if it is premature ejaculation I'm suffering from, it'd only be a temporary solution for me.
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i would suggest if not already done, try again after a long lekker warm bath. because then you both should be relaxed by the time the playing starts ;)
 
I use the performa condoms, and also bought delay cream... doesn't ruin the point of sex for me, enjoy it just as much, I just last MUCH longer, from 2-3 min to about +10 min. Worth it.
 
Other thing you can try, I think someone already mentioned it, is next time you help out yourself, stop at the point just before you ejaculate. Wait a few seconds, and go at it again, and then stop just before again... do this for about 30 min and more, and "you" will learn to last longer.
 
StellenboschStudent said:
Other thing you can try, I think someone already mentioned it, is next time you help out yourself, stop at the point just before you ejaculate. Wait a few seconds, and go at it again, and then stop just before again... do this for about 30 min and more, and "you" will learn to last longer.
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Thing is, I stopped masturbating entirely about two months ago. I do it on the off occasion, but in the last two months I only did it 3 times, and that was only because my genitals would have exploded did I not. Before that, I used to do it about 5 times a week.
 
Graal said:
Thing is, I stopped masturbating entirely about two months ago. I do it on the off occasion, but in the last two months I only did it 3 times, and that was only because my genitals would have exploded did I not. Before that, I used to do it about 5 times a week.
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Wank more, screw better...
 
Graal said:
Before that, I used to do it about 5 times a week.
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Right, you have answered it there, you have over sensitised yourself, the hand is hard and tough compared to the womans body (well that could be objective depending on the woman) but what you need too do is relax a bit more, and just enjoy being together, it all cums together in the end and hey... as long as she is happy, you should be happy!
 
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