copacetic
King of the Hippies
That would more likely be your shrivelled pee-pee methinks.
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That would more likely be your shrivelled pee-pee methinks.
RazedInBlack
RazedInBlack
copacetic
King of the Hippies
Oh yes, at the OP, if you feel it, say it, why the hell not. As long as you mean it, she will surely know.
seanyp00h
Expert Member
Wow, you really are insecure
That's bull**** advice right there!!!
my bird and I have been dating for close to 5 years and we are the most perfect couple you will ever hope to find. I tell her every single time we talk I love her and that's always been the case. It doesn't mean she loses respect for me becuase i'm desperate. FFS
+1 can't believe some of the tripe on this thread.
I hate to find myself in agreement with Djtay here, but some women do get bored and do want a challenge (as do some men). Make it too easy for them and they lose interest.
Of course, not all women are like that. Some would prefer to have their relationship and status with you affirmed, to feel loved and cherished.
So.... in other words, it depends on your woman.
Of course, not all women are like that. Some would prefer to have their relationship and status with you affirmed, to feel loved and cherished.
So.... in other words, it depends on your woman.
deweyzeph
Honorary Master
I guarantee you that you guys will not be together in 10 years time. She's probably bored of you already.
copacetic
King of the Hippies
What utter nonsense.
wrathex
Expert Member
Random things I get told, I like hearing
- I like being with you
- an sms addressed : my love
- let me get it for you ( a glass of water or coffee or a drink)
- let's swap cars for the day - I'll have your car washed at work for free
- have a great day
- are you comfortable
- miss you
- don't wash my dishes - that's my job
- do you like that song ? (often and then it goes on to a favourites playlist lol)
All these things indicate to me, that he really likes me, the words ' I love you' he has said once - can't wait to hear it again
Random things I say to him:
- I care about you
- I like it here
- miss you
- looking foward to
- I enjoyed
- beloved
- know that you are loved (once only)
- let me get it (pizza or a drink or eat-out), at least allow me to pay for every ten times you do
I said " I love you' once only and at a different time when he said it.
When we spend time together, we are in the 'now', nothing else matters and we're focused on just chillin together, there is a lot of affection and laughing together.
We don't live together, but we sometimes stay over, we don't see each other every day, and I never sms him during work time and rarely on days we don't spend together, if he sms's me, I reply.
I get an e-mail almost every morning at around teatime, with a joke or youtube or some fun thing
- I like being with you
- an sms addressed : my love
- let me get it for you ( a glass of water or coffee or a drink)
- let's swap cars for the day - I'll have your car washed at work for free
- have a great day
- are you comfortable
- miss you
- don't wash my dishes - that's my job
- do you like that song ? (often and then it goes on to a favourites playlist lol)
All these things indicate to me, that he really likes me, the words ' I love you' he has said once - can't wait to hear it again
Random things I say to him:
- I care about you
- I like it here
- miss you
- looking foward to
- I enjoyed
- beloved
- know that you are loved (once only)
- let me get it (pizza or a drink or eat-out), at least allow me to pay for every ten times you do
I said " I love you' once only and at a different time when he said it.
When we spend time together, we are in the 'now', nothing else matters and we're focused on just chillin together, there is a lot of affection and laughing together.
We don't live together, but we sometimes stay over, we don't see each other every day, and I never sms him during work time and rarely on days we don't spend together, if he sms's me, I reply.
I get an e-mail almost every morning at around teatime, with a joke or youtube or some fun thing
not a chance mate. We work hard at improving our relationship. one thing we don't do is take each other for granted.
cerebus
Honorary Master
Sounds like that internet dating worked out nicely for you ey wrathex
I have to admit my wife and I are sickeningly affectionate towards each other. But oh well... I have absolutely zero insecurity about her getting bored or leaving me. Could all the alpha males on the forum who are currently in long term committed secure relationships please step forwards?
I have to admit my wife and I are sickeningly affectionate towards each other. But oh well... I have absolutely zero insecurity about her getting bored or leaving me. Could all the alpha males on the forum who are currently in long term committed secure relationships please step forwards?
Sl8er
Executive Member
Different people = different needs.
It all depends on what your woman likes.
Fact is, you can't really take advise from ANYONE except for those people who have been HAPPILY together/married for like a billion years. (And again keeping in mind, what works for some may not work for others. You just gotta play it by ear. If it's meant to be, it will. If not...well then "move along, there's nothing to see here!")
It all depends on what your woman likes.
Fact is, you can't really take advise from ANYONE except for those people who have been HAPPILY together/married for like a billion years. (And again keeping in mind, what works for some may not work for others. You just gotta play it by ear. If it's meant to be, it will. If not...well then "move along, there's nothing to see here!")
news24
Expert Member
Thanks guys for the advice. I'll just invite my girlfriend to this thread and see what she actually thinks. 
PS! I'm in noway affiliated with news24
PS! I'm in noway affiliated with news24
R13...
Honorary Master
Aren't you afraid she might find some of your 'other' threads?Thanks guys for the advice. I'll just invite my girlfriend to this thread and see what she actually thinks.
PS! I'm in noway affiliated with news24
deweyzeph
Honorary Master
Thanks guys for the advice. I'll just invite my girlfriend to this thread and see what she actually thinks.
PS! I'm in noway affiliated with news24
To be honest, the fact that you're even discussing this issue in the first place means that you're not going to get very far with women.
Complete BS.
