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I'm having a great girlfriend who I love a bit too much. So how often should one tell the other partner that you love them. I tell her everyday, but after watching Hitch, I think that I might be overdoing it.

PS! For those who might be curious as to how long we've been together:p, its only been 10 months
 
You realize that the point of Hitch was that all the advise we gave was wrong?
 
Stop doing it as often, but do it now and again.

Remember the little things, notes in her bag (she'll find it when she least expects it)
 
I remember this feeling from before I was married.. you're flying high on the clouds of oxytocin that being with each other is creating for you. It's all koochy-koo and love you so... all hearts and lace and flowers... then suddenly you get some stress or for whatever reason the near constant flow of oxytocin you have had hits a judder and you start getting all coy, feeling all random about how much of yourself you have opened up to someone else. You start noticing your mates comments about how you're so 'whipped' and thinking they may be onto something...

All of that is normal and all of that is pride... don't let it ruin something sweet and special.

Go right now, go look in the mirror, get over yourself then go and buy a single rose for the woman in question - walk to her house with the damn thing between your teeth and thank her for everything she gives you. Ask her to forgive you for everything you haven't even realised you have done that has hurt her, tell her you love her one more time and ask her what she wants to do tonight.
 
dont read relationship books or get your advice from movies- follow your heart in this, not your head.
 
SlinkyMike said:
I remember this feeling from before I was married.. you're flying high on the clouds of oxytocin that being with each other is creating for you. It's all koochy-koo and love you so... all hearts and lace and flowers... then suddenly you get some stress or for whatever reason the near constant flow of oxytocin you have had hits a judder and you start getting all coy, feeling all random about how much of yourself you have opened up to someone else. You start noticing your mates comments about how you're so 'whipped' and thinking they may be onto something...

All of that is normal and all of that is pride... don't let it ruin something sweet and special.

Go right now, go look in the mirror, get over yourself then go and buy a single rose for the woman in question - walk to her house with the damn thing between your teeth and thank her for everything she gives you. Ask her to forgive you for everything you haven't even realised you have done that has hurt her, tell her you love her one more time and ask her what she wants to do tonight.
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youre a lag
 
Did the news24 representative just post about their personal problems?
 
The power of a Relationship lies with the one who cares the least.

Stop telling her you love her.
 
Djtay said:
The power of a Relationship lies with the one who cares the least.

Stop telling her you love her.
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So how has this worked out for you in the past? :erm:

To the OP
Don't say it out of habit, say it when you mean it :) If you mean it 5 times a day, then so be it, but when it starts being part of how you say hello or bye, like "Love you, Bye" it starts to lose its value :)
 
I just do not see what the big issue is with telling her how you feel. I do all the time.

Djtay as always is an unspeakable moron.
 
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Djtay said:
The power of a Relationship lies with the one who cares the least.

Stop telling her you love her.
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+1. You don't want to love your girlfriend more than she loves you. That's just going to set you up for a world of hurt. Let your girlfriend be the one who says "I love you" all the time, and when she does say it don't just parrot back "I love you too". Let her think about it and wonder if you really do.

Some of you guys need to grow a pair. Your girlfriend is not going to leave you because you don't tell her you love her every day, in fact quite the opposite. A woman can only lose respect for a desperate man.

And remember: nice guys finish last.
 
deweyzeph said:
+1. You don't want to love your girlfriend more than she loves you. That's just going to set you up for a world of hurt. Let your girlfriend be the one who says "I love you" all the time, and when she does say it don't just parrot back "I love you too". Let her think about it and wonder if you really do.

Some of you guys need to grow a pair. Your girlfriend is not going to leave you because you don't tell her you love her every day, in fact quite the opposite. A woman can only lose respect for a desperate man.

And remember: nice guys finish last.
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This. The amount of Beta men frequenting this forum is dissapointing and pathetic at the same time. It pains me to see men act this way and I cringe everytime they post.

Telling your woman you love her all the time is only going to put her in a comfort situation. Comfort leads to boredom which leads to some other guy getting some...
 
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