Relationship Advice

STS said:
OMG Blu :p

his mother gets to live the life she wants to live, i've spoken to her about it and she can smoke pot as much as she wants, so long as she doesn't do it around him. i'm not going to run her life or babysit her, and we're adults and there are some things we do need to keep from our son, like our sex lives, the stupid stuff we did in our lives, our finances, horror movies, where we hide the chocolates, etc. if he finds one of these things out, we deal with it, because we love him :)

i do not objectify women, if Pho3nix batted for the other team i'd recommend a male prostitute. it was meant as a joke because his situation sounded bad, as was my hand being up for use :p you know i've been through a divorce and i'll probably never be in another relationship again, because i'd rather be home with my son than out trying to see if some woman is compatible in my life and trying to get a laid. sometimes it is lonely laying in bed alone, but that is the direction my life has taken.

so if my son wants to visit a friend and i get the urge to one day to pay a prostitute for sex and nothing more, i will do it, because i want my son to have a happy life and not have another woman in his life because daddy says so :p
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Our children are so sensitive that they pick up even those things we think we can hide from them.
 
blunomore said:
I would not take that risk with a child's well-being. You only get one chance to raise a well-adjusted human being.
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i'd like to argue that neither my ex-wife nor i were raised particularly well. we were loved, but everybody knows my "quirks" and how i turned out, but i feel that the way i grew up has motivated me to never let my son grow up the same way. i've spoken on a range of topics on this forum and have plenty of times had immature and unrealistic ideas, but i've had a forum where i've had people be honest, helpful and there to put me back into my place. i now have all this knowledge that i'd like to impart onto my son should the opportunity ever arise, that my parents who are still alive today would still not be able to handle or deal with.

i've hid things from my family for 20 years, and i hope that i'll never have to hide things that will influence my son negatively, or that he'll have to hide things from me
 
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