Relationship challenges

[I.am.Sam]

Been with my significant other since 2006, married almost 10 years too.

Do I feel like this no, is it common - yes.

You get what you put in you cant expect the world and put in no effort.


The key to your issues lie here

i like your advice but today and thread post count isnt up to actual advice as yet

 

[Nibiru]

If you are unsure about a girl, take her kayaking - trust me.

 

[I.am.Sam]

If you are unsure about a girl, take her kayaking - trust me.

why did i read that as "see her karking"

 

[Nibiru]

why did i read that as "see her karking"

But you have to share the same kayak, otherwise, the test is flawed. This is the ultimate relationship test.

 

[r4nd0m]

I've given this some thought. I think you guys should have a kid. Things are stagnating, so a little one will add a new facet to your relationship.

They don't mention if they're married or not, but a marriage always fixes relationship problems.

Best is to go all in with community of property to show that you're serious about things.

 

[gregmcc]

If you are unsure about a girl, take her kayaking - trust me.

Is that some kind of new slang I don't know about?

 

[Nibiru]

Is that some kind of new slang I don't know about?

Depends on how good your balance is...

 

[3WA]

They don't mention if they're married or not, but a marriage always fixes relationship problems.

Best is to go all in with community of property to show that you're serious about things.

You joke, but this worked out well for me. I got down on one knee and told my wife I'd love her until the end of time.

Now I'm just waiting for the end of time.

 

[syntax]

Hi guys

I've been in a relationship for many years - but things don't feel the way they used to. Seems that less effort is made from all aspects and I miss the way it used to be.

Is this a common thing and are any others feeling this way?

They take work. The beginning is fun and new because you are learning about the person and in a honeymoon phase, after that it is easy to fall into a routine and just watch life pass you by.
Making effort is a two way street and it will take a conscious effort from both parties to keep the fun and prioritize your relationship in the way you want.
This is common when having kids as well, kids start taking up the time, both of you parent and you find little time or effort to put into each other. Eventually you become two people who share a schedule and raise kids.
Some are happy with that, others arent.

 

[TofuMofu]

Is that some kind of new slang I don't know about?

I think there is a new slang and that's probably why things are not the same.

 

[Priapus]

I suggest 2 girls one cup, kinda deal.

Google it. You won’t be disappointed.

 

[DapperDanMan]

If you are unsure about a girl, take her kayaking - trust me.

Is that some kind of new slang I don't know about?

Consider yourself schooled.