Relationship challenges

[Dot1]

Hi guys

I've been in a relationship for many years - but things don't feel the way they used to. Seems that less effort is made from all aspects and I miss the way it used to be.

Is this a common thing and are any others feeling this way?

 

[3WA]

are any others feeling this way?

What have you got in mind?

 

[Tabac]

Hi guys

I've been in a relationship for many years - but things don't feel the way they used to. Seems that less effort is made from all aspects and I miss the way it used to be.

Is this a common thing and are any others feeling this way?

Depends .... You a dude or dudette ? Men + feelings is different than woman + feelings.

 

[Harmonic]

I recommend banging your partners sister to spice things up. Bonus points if your partner partakes.

 

[MentellusMaximus]

Location, age, what you had in mind and recent photos would really help narrow this down.

 

[DapperDanMan]

Here is a very insightful thread on the topic.

Advice on ending a long term relationship

Howzit boys. So about a 4 months ago, I gave the missus an ultimatum, after 10 years of trying to get her skilled up and contributing to the household in a financially meaningful way. We've been glued to each other for 18 years straight, no cheating, no missteps, no bs. But, Sh__ got real dire...

mybroadband.co.za

 

[Next Thing]

IMO You are coming to the wrong place for relationship advice...

 

[skimread]

Hi guys

I've been in a relationship for many years - but things don't feel the way they used to. Seems that less effort is made from all aspects and I miss the way it used to be.

Is this a common thing and are any others feeling this way?

Post Covid world

 

[Nibiru]

Recreate this thread on a Friday if you want serious answers. Everyone will just take you for a poppie during the week. my 2c

 

[DapperDanMan]

but things don't feel the way they used to.

Perhaps instead of @Dot1 you should go for dat one instead?

 

[epah]

Hi guys

I've been in a relationship for many years - but things don't feel the way they used to. Seems that less effort is made from all aspects and I miss the way it used to be.

Is this a common thing and are any others feeling this way?

Relationship is dead. Your SO probably found someone else and now they are neglecting you.

 

[My_King]

Hope you don't have anything on your name.

 

[TheMightyQuin]

Hi guys

I've been in a relationship for many years - but things don't feel the way they used to. Seems that less effort is made from all aspects and I miss the way it used to be.

Is this a common thing and are any others feeling this way?

Agony Aunt Column is --------->

 

[gregmcc]

Time to move on.

 

[Nibiru]

Some real-talk: hanging on to a dying relationship does much more harm to you in the long run than ending it and moving on. All this time you spend clinging on, you WILL lose a bit of your soul every day, it will take longer to recover emotionally the longer you keep clinging to it and you could have been spending the time and money doing something that gives you actual joy/accomplishment in life.

While you are dicking around in a shitty relationship, the real ones are being snatched up - real-talk over back to meme'ing.

 

[I.am.Sam]

Relationship is dead. Your SO probably found someone else and now they are neglecting you.

i agree

she has a side SO

/inb4 a shoulder to cry on sad posts

 

[I.am.Sam]

but we also want pics to decide

is she worth fighting for

if you a girl OP..send us pics so we can decide if you worth fighting for

 

[I.am.Sam]

cos i can do with silence ..but a hottie when we go out

@ShaunSA is both ...a hottie and a talker

@Dave is a screamer...@epah is the queen

works different everywhere

 

[Snyper564]

Hi guys

I've been in a relationship for many years - but things don't feel the way they used to. Seems that less effort is made from all aspects and I miss the way it used to be.

Is this a common thing and are any others feeling this way?

Been with my significant other since 2006, married almost 10 years too.

Do I feel like this no, is it common - yes.

You get what you put in you cant expect the world and put in no effort.


The key to your issues lie here

but things don't feel the way they used to. Seems that less effort is made from all aspects and I miss the way it used to be.

 

[3WA]

I've given this some thought. I think you guys should have a kid. Things are stagnating, so a little one will add a new facet to your relationship.