Relationship help thread 3.0... (AAAAAAAAAND ITS GONE!)

Leave her. From what I can tell according to your posts, she is bad news and a little mentally unstable.
 
Random Hero said:
All woman I think are crazy... Does anyone here have a girl or dated one or married to one which they can call normal?
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There is a point where no matter how hot a woman is, her craziness out weighs is. You need to find a balance between beauty and crazy. This one is way past hot into crazy.
 
Pox said:
Someone who goes to that level of crazy is not someone I would ever want to be friends with, let alone even consider something more. Too many signs that this will only hurt you.
Anyone want to take bets on how long until she asks you to stop seeing some of your friends?
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Strange... She does not like me chatting with other girls..
 
Random Hero said:
All woman I think are crazy... Does anyone here have a girl or dated one or married to one which they can call normal?
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Yes, and yes and yes!

You might think that you will not find someone else you fell the same about, but move one, not before long you will feel the same about another girl. Then we can start "Relationship help thread 4.0".
 
Random Hero said:
No dude... Cant put pics up. What if she finds out about this? then im fudged.. if I eventually get into a relationship with her, she will probably search my internet history and find this... She already has access to my phone and named my ex "hoer" in the contacts.. and she sent a VN to this other girl from my hometown on Vday saying "Haai bitch, sal jy assblief my ou uitlos, dankie"
(The girl she sent that VN to said "Happy vanentines day I <3 U"
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Holy ****
But its the afrikaans girls, The English ones I have dated are a lot more chilled, this girl isn't from the moot by any chance?
I normally get these crazy one's from the moot.
 
Random Hero said:
No dude... Cant put pics up. What if she finds out about this? then im fudged.. if I eventually get into a relationship with her, she will probably search my internet history and find this... She already has access to my phone and named my ex "hoer" in the contacts.. and she sent a VN to this other girl from my hometown on Vday saying "Haai bitch, sal jy assblief my ou uitlos, dankie"
(The girl she sent that VN to said "Happy vanentines day I <3 U"
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I know you might be thinking "What does a bunch of randoms on a forum know about how I feel blah blah blah...", but this is a serious red flag. You might like this girl, but that doesn't mean that this is the right girl for you. I have dated a few guys that "I really liked", but that didn't change the fact that they were kind of crazy. If I were you I would think long and hard if I really wanted to date someone who freaks out about a random message sent before we were dating, and who changes contact names to "hoer" (very classy btw... :erm:)
 
Lament said:
Holy ****
But its the afrikaans girls, The English ones I have dated are a lot more chilled, this girl isn't from the moot by any chance?
I normally get these crazy one's from the moot.
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Hahaha! nope not from the moot, originally jozi girl, from florida/roodepoort side... now centurion and Res here in hatfield. I actually know of a nice girl who lives in the moot... but she is a bit bigger then me. but a nice girl.. just not my temperament.
 
Roxi_B4b3 said:
I know you might be thinking "What does a bunch of randoms on a forum know about how I feel blah blah blah...", but this is a serious red flag. You might like this girl, but that doesn't mean that this is the right girl for you. I have dated a few guys that "I really liked", but that didn't change the fact that they were kind of crazy. If I were you I would think long and hard if I really wanted to date someone who freaks out about a random message sent before we were dating, and who changes contact names to "hoer" (very classy btw... :erm:)
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He probably thought it was cute at the time, but stupid sh_t like this will come back and haunt him when he's in hospital with a fork stuck in his nut sack.
 
Roxi_B4b3 said:
I know you might be thinking "What does a bunch of randoms on a forum know about how I feel blah blah blah...", but this is a serious red flag. You might like this girl, but that doesn't mean that this is the right girl for you. I have dated a few guys that "I really liked", but that didn't change the fact that they were kind of crazy. If I were you I would think long and hard if I really wanted to date someone who freaks out about a random message sent before we were dating, and who changes contact names to "hoer" (very classy btw... :erm:)
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Another thing about the relationship is that it moved really really fast. she also feels this and she said it scares her... but now this morning she wants me again.. the volatility is breaking my brain! maybe I should just tame her... if this is possible..
 
Random Hero said:
Another thing about the relationship is that it moved really really fast. she also feels this and she said it scares her... but now this morning she wants me again.. the volatility is breaking my brain! maybe I should just tame her... if this is possible..
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Like how you "put her in her place"? Hahahahaha!!!
 
HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA

HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAAHAHA


HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA.....

I am so glad i don't deal with this kind of **** :D :D :D
 
I'm not the most sane person but even that scares me.... run...
 
Random Hero said:
Another thing about the relationship is that it moved really really fast. she also feels this and she said it scares her... but now this morning she wants me again.. the volatility is breaking my brain! maybe I should just tame her... if this is possible..
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You mad man?

She's completely out of your comfort zone. We don't want women to change us so why would we want to change them. It's very early and she's probably still testing the boundaries. Tell her to get her act together figure out what she wants and call you when she made up her mind. You're not here to play games with her. If it's face to face, do the following:

Tell here you don't have time for these childish games, give her R 10 and tell her to phone you when she has grown up a bit. Then walk away.
 
Random Hero said:
Things get hot and steam, and stuff happen. no sex though, she wears a purity ring so I would not want to put her in a difficult position without it being consensual. We did everything else though... Feels good man! and we go to sleep at like 04:00am
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SERIOUSLY NSFW

[video=youtube;NfRtkCGE40A]https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NfRtkCGE40A[/video]

Hahahaha, should've listened dude... Cut and run. Fast. She's gonna try regain some control and keep you on a leash so be warned.
 
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