Relationship problem

Sensorei said:
I read this the other day and this ridiculous situation really bugged me because I know this kind of story well.

Now this thread pops up again and seeing a guy so blinded by pu$$y that he can't man up and grow a backbone is just shameful. Sorry, but sympathy is not what you need. You need to make changes because patterns like this have a way of staying with one in life unless you sort things out.
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Its not about me having a backbone, its about not throwing away 3 years of my life because I didnt want to ask for advice.
 
AcidRaZor said:
Oh and the worst thing you could do is give her ultimatums. That's a one-way ticket to fight-ville (read my paragraph on putting her on the "defense"). Ultimatums is probably the most immature thing you could have come up with.
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I didnt go with the ultimatuim and you are probably right it would of just ended up in a fight, just had a good ol fashioned converstaion and things are back on track.

Thanks :)
 
/Grammar Nazi hat ENGAGE!!

I've seen you on more than one occasion do this. It's not "would of", its "would've" :)

/disengage
 
Wezzy777 said:
Thank you for this it is exactly what I needed to hear. We had a good talk no ultimatuim or anything and things are back on track she cleaned the house did the laundry and I was so surprised to get home and see what she had done and all it took was a good conversation because I refused to get into a fight.

Thank you everyone for your input still got a long way to go but it is certainly a start. :)
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Awesome.
she's a keeper.
 
Wezzy777 said:
Thank you for this it is exactly what I needed to hear. We had a good talk no ultimatuim or anything and things are back on track she cleaned the house did the laundry and I was so surprised to get home and see what she had done and all it took was a good conversation because I refused to get into a fight.

Thank you everyone for your input still got a long way to go but it is certainly a start. :)
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Nice to hear.
 
Wezzy777 said:
Thank you for this it is exactly what I needed to hear. We had a good talk no ultimatuim or anything and things are back on track she cleaned the house did the laundry and I was so surprised to get home and see what she had done and all it took was a good conversation because I refused to get into a fight.

Thank you everyone for your input still got a long way to go but it is certainly a start. :)
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It is about equilibrium.
It is moving from one extreme to another.
It will come to an equilibrium in a month's or so time and it is only then that you will decide whether the equilibrium is in line with your expectations and needs.
 
tsume said:
You might want to print out this out as a greeting card just in case

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omw, this made my week :) :) :)
 
Wezzy777 said:
Thank you for this it is exactly what I needed to hear. We had a good talk no ultimatuim or anything and things are back on track she cleaned the house did the laundry and I was so surprised to get home and see what she had done and all it took was a good conversation because I refused to get into a fight.

Thank you everyone for your input still got a long way to go but it is certainly a start. :)
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Remember to avoid having repeat conversations in future about the same stuff, there must be a structure in place, something actionable. It's all good and well she did the laundry and cleaned the house, but whenever my sister got crapped out for not doing the same thing, she'd be quite good at it for like a week and afterwards fall back into the same groove.
 
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