Self-saboteurs

[Azbubu]

Are you a self-saboteur? Do you suffer from self-destructive and self-defeating behavior? Are you deliberately standing in your way? Do you get bored when things are going well and prefer it when they aren't?

 

[Hamster]

iow, Are you a drama queen?

 

[ChocolateBadger]

Things never go well for me :/ maybe I'm a sub conscious self-saboteur. It's at the point that I get suspicious when things go right.

 

[Griz]

yes (

 

[pampoenskyf]

Things never go well for me :/ maybe I'm a sub conscious self-saboteur. It's at the point that I get suspicious when things go right.

I know the feeling...
Self mutilation gives a person perspective

 

[RiaX]

I believe the word is masochist

 

[Azbubu]

I believe the word is masochist

I believe you are incorrect.

 

[DerpiesFreud]

I know the feeling...
Self mutilation gives a person perspective

I believe the word is masochist

I didnt get any 'perspective'?
Masochist is phsyical only right?
What about emotional and mental.

And yes I`l probably Fsk something up before the end pf this year horribly or just scrape through if I make it out alive.

 

[Shake&Bake]

Are you a self-saboteur? Do you suffer from self-destructive and self-defeating behavior? Are you deliberately standing in your way? Do you get bored when things are going well and prefer it when they aren't?

Aye.

Funny thing now is that the one thing I'm trying really hard to make a success of, I'm having lots of preverbial doors shut in my face, or things just going wrong for me.
Isn't that against the rules? Instead of Karma effing things up, I'm supposed to do it?
Or perhaps, now that I've made the conscious decision to do good at something and to enjoy it. The ebb and flow of the universe cannot comprehend my madness and just thinks I'm off my rocker and therefore throws stumbling blocks in my path to once again establish order and equilibrium?

:wtf: Ok.... copa, light the blunt!
I'm all deep and stuff now! :twisted:

 

[RiaX]

I didnt get any 'perspective'?
Masochist is phsyical only right?
What about emotional and mental.

And yes I`l probably Fsk something up before the end pf this year horribly or just scrape through if I make it out alive.

masochist can be physical, emotional or sexual.

Self-defeating personality disorder (also known as masochistic personality disorder)

In psychiatry, the terms sadism and masochism describe a personality type who may be male or female characterized by the individual deriving pleasure and gratification from either inflicting or receiving physical pain and/or humiliation, respectively. In some cases the pleasure and gratification may be sexual but in others sexual pleasure is not experienced, and it may involve deriving the pleasure from masochistic or sadist behaviour towards the opposite gender or same gender as self. Some individuals appear to be exclusively sadist and others exclusively masochistic in deriving their pleasure, but many alternately derive pleasure from sadist and masochistic thoughts and experiences involving themselves and others.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sadism_and_masochism_as_medical_terms

1. The deriving of sexual gratification, or the tendency to derive sexual gratification, from being physically or emotionally abused.
2. The deriving of pleasure, or the tendency to derive pleasure, from being humiliated or mistreated, either by another or by oneself.
3. A willingness or tendency to subject oneself to unpleasant or trying experiences.

http://www.thefreedictionary.com/masochist

can be self inflicted or inflicted by others.

 

[creeper]

Are you a self-saboteur? Do you suffer from self-destructive and self-defeating behavior? Are you deliberately standing in your way? Do you get bored when things are going well and prefer it when they aren't?

They are called managers and they create crises just to keep employees busy.

 

[werfie]

Ok, now you can post the "Then we have just the product for you..." bit

 

[Dolby]

I'm told I'm like this with relationships ...

If things are going smoothly and happy, I (apparently) cause trouble and fights

 

[Freaksta]

Yup, people sometime like to create conflict. Get bored, need something exciting, get bored again and see that the exciting wasn't all that great!

I know I'm damn good at procrastination...

 

[Pho3nix]

Procrastination causing self-destruction. Things are really boring when they are going well and yet I'm scared but really excited when things are going horribly (except relationships).

 

[Nanfeishen]

Aye.

Funny thing now is that the one thing I'm trying really hard to make a success of, I'm having lots of preverbial doors shut in my face, or things just going wrong for me.
Isn't that against the rules? Instead of Karma effing things up, I'm supposed to do it?
Or perhaps, now that I've made the conscious decision to do good at something and to enjoy it. The ebb and flow of the universe cannot comprehend my madness and just thinks I'm off my rocker and therefore throws stumbling blocks in my path to once again establish order and equilibrium?

Sometimes life throws you curve balls to test your willingness to go the distance

 

[Azbubu]

Perhaps it is because many people are so afraid of failure so they'd rather stand in the way of themselves than try and fail. Perhaps.