She wont shut the hell up!!

JHatman

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Take it from a guy that has been married for a very loooooong time. GET OUT WHILE YOU CAN!!!!

She will pull you down into oblivion. She will destroy your dreams because dreams need postive people to grow. You will lose your temper one day and that will lead to you losing everything that you have put together for years. Get out, Get out!!!!! If she is irritating the hell out of you right now, it will only get worse once you are married.

The man's right. Ditch the bitch while you can. A women like that will drive you to alcohol.
 

FantaFest

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OK dude.
DON'T LEAVE HER
Women are funny creatures,moaning is part of their essence :p

No doubt you love her with all your heart because well you guys are going to get married-remind her of how you feel about her-maybe take her out to dinner and sort things out,it will be the only way.

Ok let me ask you,are you sure you could leave her,really think about that...
 

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No doubt you love her with all your heart because well you guys are going to get married

he sounded pretty serious / p1ssed off man - women do moan, but most do not to THAT extent - I guess he was just unlucky...

I'm going to have to agree with LottaFun here and say "get out", and then go to "the pickup artist" thread

maybe even pitbull's grafenberg spot thread might stop her moaning, get her to really "moan" and then stop moaning completely...
 

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A few basic rules regarding the fairer sex:

Never tell them they talk too much.

Never tell them that they moan too much.

Never tell them they are fat or obnoxious, which can be missinterpreted as both at the same time.

Never, ever, ever tell a woman and possibly your future wife that she has to change or you are leaving her.

First things first, you've been together for 2 years, that's actually quite short to be honest, but who am I to judge. You've got a good few more years left in you to show her exactly what and who you are and how you prefer to be treated.

I'm seeing a friend and she's completely head over heels for me. I'm just not ready for a relationship at the moment and I know in the short span of a few months that we've been actively discussing things and getting to know each other, that those are one of the main rules I should remember.

I'm not saying be a push over, but I am saying treat her with respect, care and love, which she does deserve. You reap what you sowe as they say.

All the best ;)
 

<moLe>

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A few basic rules regarding the fairer sex:

Never tell them they talk too much.

Never tell them that they moan too much.
bullsh1t...
sure she wont be happy her if you dont tell her that but if you dont then she'll continue, me and my lady are quite happy but took a **** load of arguments and speaking our minds to get here.
here is the recipe, you talk it out, tell her she whats grinding her bones, odds are she'll point out your flaws and then step by step you sort it out, eventually you guys (if both parties are willing and open minded) will grow closer..the real things you never say is
a) your fat (not even as a joke)
b) your mothers a bitch (trust me dont..)
c)nothing (as in they expect you to daily compliment their looks, so do so even if you think she looks better in another outfit
d)whine (its not a guys place to bitch about things, if they ask you whats wrong, keep it sweet and short pitty parties are meant for old woman)
e)say her friend is hot (you will never hear the end of it
 

Keeper

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say her friend is hot (you will never hear the end of it

i have done this and haven't had any problems really (Maybe she's hiding it, lol)

All women are different, but the OP's sound like a scene from "The Breakup" X 10

i'd move on...probably....
 

<moLe>

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haha no my woman is probably the most jealous (secretly vain) creature ever..love her to bits though...but god knows her mother *sigh*..
 

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Life is too short to sit and be moaned at. If it were me, id get out fast or set things straight and let the other person know.
 

Juggy

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You ungrateful bastard. There are countless men that would give much, to have to put up with that, to at least have a female companion.

Start giving her some attention which she deserves and appreciate what you got. :mad:

I remember reading a caption once...

"No matter how beautiful she is remember one thing, somewhere out there there is at least one man that is sick and tired of her crap;)"

I must say that I have the most amazing woman in my life, she's intelligent, beautiful, ambitious, funny, loves animals and people. We've been together for almost 7 years now and I do consider myself incredibly lucky to be this fortunate.
 
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Albereth

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Also I've know her for almost two years, and not once, never ever ever have i seen her just relax. I think she is unable to.

Go and buy her a day package to a spa. In fact, buy two packages and you go with her. She will be 'forced' to relax.
 

werries2

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Go for some counseling, I doubt you will get any good advice from a forum such as this ;) A a qualified 3rd party may make all the difference you need, and it is easier to use a 3rd party to share sensitive information like this. (They are also less likely to burst out in tears and making you feel like a sod!)
 

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Girls my age (20) aren't looking for anything more than meaningless sex, booze, party and drugs... and thats definetely not what im looking for...

That goes on for most girls for many years. You'll battle to have decent relationship with a girl under 25 - because apart from the sex, booze, party and drugs - they also don't know what they want in their lives.
 

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lol I guess someone isn't getting any. Sure there are "countless men that would give much, to have to put up with that" until they get sick of it after a week/month.

Most men i know would rather fap fap fap for the rest of their lives than listen to moaning....:eek:




Life is too short to sit and be moaned at. If it were me, id get out fast or set things straight and let the other person know.
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