Should love be hard work?

Interesting comments, i really relate to how the OP feels.
 
It has to be 50/50. If the other party is not 'investing' in this relationship (probably hoping for something better), then its not worth it. As they say, cut your losses and bounce!
 
skateboardt said:
dude im in the same situation... u have to keep at it
but at some point something needs to happen... u can't wait for ever
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Thanks, good to know I'm not the only one (sucker?) in the same situation.

The question if how long to wait: when is too long too long?

Couple to that, even if she said she wants more she happens to live in a city a good 5 hours drive away :eek: So maybe her rejection of the idea at the moment is a good one (something I orginally said when we first hit it off as I thought I wouldn't be conversing with her every day and visiting her all the time).
 
Optioncarduser said:
Interesting comments, i really relate to how the OP feels.
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Thanks man! Sometimes this whole "falling in love" thing isn't the romantic screenplay Hollywood wants us to believe it is. Suppose I should have guessed that when I looked in the mirror this morning and Brad Pitt didn't stare back :p
 
Oreomitch said:
Love is easy...relationships take work ;)
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Hear hear! If only love resolved all issues, lifted every moment of insecurity and garaunteed happiness. v

The world would be a better place ...
 
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