Car weight has been reduced dramatically since the 60's - think of all the new modern materials being used, as well as computer aided design. Everything used to be made with steel - these days, they use aluminium as much as possible, as well as plastic and high strength steel.
A car in an equivalent class will likely be lighter and safer than they were 50 years ago.
I feel much safer in my 20 year old hilux with all its steel and rigid chassis and axles than in any modern vehicle. Any clown driving into me in his ultra modern, high-spec vehicle is going to come second.
As has been mentioned, most SA drivers have absolutely no concept of stopping distances - and that is not of their own vehicle, but the eighteen-wheeler they cut in front of 15m from a traffic light.
Driver arrogance has to be addressed before one can think of increasing speed limits.