blunomore
Honorary Master
I think my kids suffered way more losing rights/priviliges and were far more angry and resentful than I was getting a whack across the backside.
Problem is most parents don't enforce the punishment, they're too soft. From what I've seen it's a case of "YOU'RE GROUNDED FOR A MONTH" turning into just a day or two
Check the highlighted parts. These kids are more uncertain than ever before, because they do not know with certainty that if they do wrong, the consequence wil be Y (as you said, it ended up being a 'lesser' punishment). The parents do not follow through.