So I'm a bit premature ....

[STS]

I know it's a bit early to be making this thread and a little too quick to be jumping to conclusions by i thought who better to ask than mybb

also, no dissing STS's member

I have a partner that i can't seem to last with physically during hanky panky. I can still give her orgasms and i can always swap out the condom for another one and keep going, but the baby making juices make me a tad nervous during the swapping. I will get some condoms with spermicide in them to solve this problem, but it's annoying to have to stop too.

Also, i've had hanky panky countless times in the past and this was never an issue, sometimes i never climaxed at all with other women. i'm not sure if it's old age or because her anatomy/skills are different, but i wanted to know if there are any methods i have missed now to go longer

1.) Full bladder - this has helped me once but it means you have to "plan" ahead, and it's not as spontaneous. i also can't walk around with a full bladder all the time
2.) Slowing down/stopping - doesn't help, feels like the pressure constantly sits there waiting for the next stimulation
3.) Zen mind control - tensing the muscle holding it back also doesn't seem to help me
4.) Keep going with a more durable condom - too risky
5.) Penis numbing cream/condoms - do jack ****


So my next idea was finding a way to numb the penis physically, like either slapping it 100 times a day, tying a brick around it to numb it, pouring chilli sauce on to develop calluses or who knows what else. i'm open to ideas.


there may also be a reward of a nudey to up the ante :twisted:

 

[Batista]

I have the opposite problem, sorry cant help you there bud.

 

[Zewp]

Hmm, what positions have you tried with this woman? I've found that I last the shortest amount of time in missionary.

Or you could go gay. :twisted: I always had problems with stamina when I was with women. In the beginning sometimes I would stick it in and it would be over within 30 seconds. Now that I'm fully out as gay and just having sex with guys, no problems at all. I'm not sure if it's some mental thing or if my stamina has just improved drastically over the years or whatever.

I feel your pain, though. Nothing is quite as distressing as not lasting long enough in bed and not being able to get to the bottom of the problem.

 

[RexxGrim]

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HOxeH_OQpFw

 

[DrewChan]

I have the opposite problem, sorry cant help you there bud.

^ this :'(

 

[ScottulusMaximus]

When you're feeling the ''urge'' grip at the base of the shaft with thumb and forefinger(thumb tummy side and forefinger on the outer side) squeeze hard, you'll lose the ''urge'' in about 5 sec.

 

[Zewp]

I'll also point out that there was a period of about two years that I didn't have sex at all, after I decided I'm no longer going to have sex with people I'm not in the slightest sexually attracted to (in this case women). During this period I changed up my fapping a bit and spent a lot of time edging, because apparently this is an excellent way to improve stamina. I would sometimes edge for an hour or two at a time before releasing.

Also, have your prostate checked. Premature ejaculation could be linked to prostate problems.

 

[STS]

Hmm, what positions have you tried with this woman? I've found that I last the shortest amount of time in missionary.

Or you could go gay. :twisted: I always had problems with stamina when I was with women. In the beginning sometimes I would stick it in and it would be over within 30 seconds. Now that I'm fully out as gay and just having sex with guys, no problems at all. I'm not sure if it's some mental thing or if my stamina has just improved drastically over the years or whatever.

I feel your pain, though. Nothing is quite as distressing as not lasting long enough in bed and not being able to get to the bottom of the problem.

i have a story for you that involves another thread but i don't seem to have a problem with anal, i think it's the rhythm and speed that i go at there that helps

 

[STS]

I'll also point out that there was a period of about two years that I didn't have sex at all, after I decided I'm no longer going to have sex with people I'm not in the slightest sexually attracted to (in this case women). During this period I changed up my fapping a bit and spent a lot of time edging, because apparently this is an excellent way to improve stamina. I would sometimes edge for an hour or two at a time before releasing.

Also, have your prostate checked. Premature ejaculation could be linked to prostate problems.

that is interesting and didn't know that, i will do that, thanks i thought it was the opposite if there was prostate problems, ie. not orgasming at all

 

[STS]

When you're feeling the ''urge'' grip at the base of the shaft with thumb and forefinger(thumb tummy side and forefinger on the outer side) squeeze hard, you'll lose the ''urge'' in about 5 sec.

i'll try this so far you're in first place

 

[Sinbad]

that is interesting and didn't know that, i will do that, thanks i thought it was the opposite if there was prostate problems, ie. not orgasming at all

Nope, it makes you dribble when you pee

 

[ScottulusMaximus]

i'll try this so far you're in first place

Oh goody:-/ It really does work! Try with fapping first so you get the technique, the lower down you grip the better it works...

PS:- I'm loving all the badass I can go all night comments, sure guys sure

 

[STS]

Nope, it makes you dribble when you pee

i think i get prostate problems every time after sex then :erm:

 

[AstroTurf]

Very long, hot bath before sex.

 

[STS]

Oh goody:-/ It really does work! Try with fapping first so you get the technique, the lower down you grip the better it works...

PS:- I'm loving all the badass I can go all night comments, sure guys sure

i will do that, thanks

i get what some of them are saying, i've had situations where i could be erect for a long time but the final stretch was never there, i think it's even true in this case if i just had straight forward humpey that i would last, i think it's the combination of things however that may be exciting me too much i can't just switch off and stop all the activities and just focus on the actual thrusting

 

[STS]

Very long, hot bath before sex.

i must google this, i haven't seen this one

 

[Zewp]

Nope, it makes you dribble when you pee

This too. If you've got an enlarged prostate, you'll likely see other symptoms as well. I think this is most of them;

Difficulty in initiating urination
Dribbling episodes at the end of each session
Weak urine system
Increased urgency for urination
Increased urination at night
Straining while urinating
Incomplete evacuation during urination

Still, it's never a bad idea to have your prostate checked regularly. A very uncomfortable procedure, but a very healthy practice.

 

[AstroTurf]

i must google this, i haven't seen this one

No idea what your results will be I just know that I lose sync with my wife when I do this.
Lets just say she reaches the finish line loong before me (I have now been banned from long hot baths before bed, quick showers only).

 

[Saltex]

I also get this problem,it's really frustrating, when I use to be on anti depressants it almost eliminated premature ejaculation. Another thing you could try do is jacking off before sex. Luckily for me I can still go on after jizzing.

 

[Electric]

Smoke some Opium, turns you into the energizer bunny