So I'm a bit premature ....

[Stickfigure]

I have the opposite problem, sorry cant help you there bud.

^ this :'(

least I'm not the only one...

 

[Zewp]

I would also really stick away from penis numbing condoms/gels and the like. The point of sex is to enjoy yourself and those just end up detracting from the experience. They're a bit of a hamfisted approach to 'fixing' the problem.

 

[Saltex]

I would also really stick away from penis numbing condoms/gels and the like. The point of sex is to enjoy yourself and those just end up detracting from the experience. They're a bit of a hamfisted approach to 'fixing' the problem.

But some guys just get more satisfaction pleasing the woman than the just the ejaculation

It's kind of like a "challenge accepted" thing.

 

[STS]

I would also really stick away from penis numbing condoms/gels and the like. The point of sex is to enjoy yourself and those just end up detracting from the experience. They're a bit of a hamfisted approach to 'fixing' the problem.

I enjoy pleasuring someone more than being pleasured myself, and sometimes i have TOO much of a good time

i will try some in this thread and see how it goes tonight thanks guys. if it even helps for a few more minutes you'll have a gift in your inbox tomorrow

 

[STS]

But some guys just get more satisfaction pleasing the woman than the just the ejaculation

It's kind of like a "challenge accepted" thing.

this ^

it's not actually the stimulation, it's the stimulation AND everything else

 

[Batista]

I would also really stick away from penis numbing condoms/gels and the like. The point of sex is to enjoy yourself and those just end up detracting from the experience. They're a bit of a hamfisted approach to 'fixing' the problem.

lmao

 

[Rocket Raccoon]

During this period I changed up my fapping a bit and spent a lot of time edging, because apparently this is an excellent way to improve stamina. I would sometimes edge for an hour or two at a time before releasing.

Explanation please?

 

[themba990]

I had quite a good 'innings' on Sunday... Don't really know why. Sometimes I just focus on destroying the p#ssy and that sheer determination keeps me in the game for a bit.

 

[Zewp]

But some guys just get more satisfaction pleasing the woman than the just the ejaculation

It's kind of like a "challenge accepted" thing.

Meh, sex is supposed to be about more than the ejaculation anyway. Good sex should be pleasurable for both partners throughout the act.

Explanation please?

Edging is when you're masturbating and you keep yourself on the brink of ejaculating, then stop just before you actually do, then continue as soon as the urge subsides. Some people can do it to their sex partners, but you really need to be able to read your partner's cues for that. It can be pretty intense, though.

 

[hellfire]

I know it's a bit early to be making this thread and a little too quick to be jumping to conclusions by i thought who better to ask than mybb

also, no dissing STS's member

I have a partner that i can't seem to last with physically during hanky panky. I can still give her orgasms and i can always swap out the condom for another one and keep going, but the baby making juices make me a tad nervous during the swapping. I will get some condoms with spermicide in them to solve this problem, but it's annoying to have to stop too.

Also, i've had hanky panky countless times in the past and this was never an issue, sometimes i never climaxed at all with other women. i'm not sure if it's old age or because her anatomy/skills are different, but i wanted to know if there are any methods i have missed now to go longer

1.) Full bladder - this has helped me once but it means you have to "plan" ahead, and it's not as spontaneous. i also can't walk around with a full bladder all the time
2.) Slowing down/stopping - doesn't help, feels like the pressure constantly sits there waiting for the next stimulation
3.) Zen mind control - tensing the muscle holding it back also doesn't seem to help me
4.) Keep going with a more durable condom - too risky
5.) Penis numbing cream/condoms - do jack ****


So my next idea was finding a way to numb the penis physically, like either slapping it 100 times a day, tying a brick around it to numb it, pouring chilli sauce on to develop calluses or who knows what else. i'm open to ideas.


there may also be a reward of a nudey to up the ante :twisted:

Picture something that turns you off? Your granny masturbating, your parents bonking, dead puppies, etc.

Who is the nudey of? Her?

Hmm, what positions have you tried with this woman? I've found that I last the shortest amount of time in missionary.

Or you could go gay. :twisted: I always had problems with stamina when I was with women. In the beginning sometimes I would stick it in and it would be over within 30 seconds. Now that I'm fully out as gay and just having sex with guys, no problems at all. I'm not sure if it's some mental thing or if my stamina has just improved drastically over the years or whatever.

I feel your pain, though. Nothing is quite as distressing as not lasting long enough in bed and not being able to get to the bottom of the problem.

Weird - I would have thought that being attracted to your sex partner would result in inability to climax, not premature climax.

I had quite a good 'innings' on Sunday... Don't really know why. Sometimes I just focus on destroying the p#ssy and that sheer determination keeps me in the game for a bit.

Wow. Lucky girl. I'm sure that all chicks go out at night hoping for a p*ssy destruction

 

[I.am.Sam]

I had quite a good 'innings' on Sunday... Don't really know why. Sometimes I just focus on destroying the p#ssy and that sheer determination keeps me in the game for a bit.

lucky rain didnt stop play

 

[PhreeMe]

Explanation please?

I'll guess at getting yourself right to the brink over and over again.

Edit: Beaten by the man himself.

lucky rain didnt stop play

 

[ErEkTiLe_DySfUnKsHuN]

More foreplay

Withdraw if you feel yourself about to lose control

Continue with foreplay

Resume play

/repeat

 

[ErEkTiLe_DySfUnKsHuN]

Wait.

How old are you again?

 

[STS]

Wait.

How old are you again?

Whatever you're about to imply, I've been doing this for years, so screw you

 

[Ninja'd]

I had quite a good 'innings' on Sunday... Don't really know why. Sometimes I just focus on destroying the p#ssy and that sheer determination keeps me in the game for a bit.

Oh yeah

 

[GreGorGy]

i'll try this so far you're in first place

No, STS, until it works you're still coming first


I get blazed myself - it helps.

 

[STS]

No, STS, until it works you're still coming first


I get blazed myself - it helps.

 

[faniebraai]

Drink! Alcohol! Lots!

ps: please don't pm me your cock

 

[themba990]

Oh yeah

Hahahaha
I'm not claiming to be some warrior, alls I'm saying is that instead of thinking about not being premature or how good it feels, think about being totally awesome and putting in your best performance...