Some male advice please

[Serqet]

i was only joking so my apologies if you were offended

 

[Mila]

Oeps..... need sex change. bye bye

 

[blunomore]

Have you got PMS or something ?

Although I respect your right to post, I did specifically ask for male advice. See header.

Have you noticed the quality of the advice you got from the male posters thus far?

Things like 'get in on the action' does not exactly seem to be helping you at all.

Just sayin'.

 

[Serqet]

Just curious what difference does it make if the advice comes from a male or a female?

Just as your previous thread about drugs where you stated you were only allowed to comment if you had taken drugs.

Stop discriminating and ease up will you. If you going to ask something be open to all opinions not just those that suit your pigeon hole.

 

[sdd]

i was only joking so my apologies if you were offended

It's all good ....

 

[Pitbull]

It's none of your business, let it be.

Would you tell her if he did it to her ?

That is the question you need to ask yourself.

 

[Slootvreter]

has it ever occurred to you that it might be her boss on their way to a meeting? or a work colleague and they are just going out for lunch??

That's what I say.

 

[Dolby]

No one has told me or let me in on anything when my girlfriend was up to no good. It seems everyone knew but me

I must have had a bunch of people/aquaintences laughing at me behind my back while I thought we were in a good place.

When I think back, I get emo ... and I want cry ... and stuff

 

[Jewelbox]

If you are not 100% sure, rather keep quiet!

 

[JK8]

Ahem... Dolby eish....

Anyway I once saw a friends mom (who was super hot and we did make him aware of it) and she was busy with another guy in Matric...

I havent told him about it... maybe I should write it on his wall on Facebook???

 

[Dolby]

... or PM

 

[porn$tar]

How dull and uninteresting must your life be if you're willing to meddle in other peoples lives
bases on flimsy, at best circumstantial, evidence?

 

[sdd]

I understand and agree with the argument that she might be with a colleague/ work lunch/ etc .... you don't get it ....

It is like this ...
if someone came to me and told me that they saw my wife with a guy in, lets say, Alberton, I would be curious and suspicious. Because I know she never goes to that part of the world - ever.
Similarly if I saw Karen in Centurion, the same alarm bells went off because she never comes to this part of the world except with Mark.

It is as simple as that.

 

[blunomore]

I understand and agree with the argument that she might be with a colleague/ work lunch/ etc .... you don't get it ....

It is like this ...
if someone came to me and told me that they saw my wife with a guy in, lets say, Alberton, I would be curious and suspicious. Because I know she never goes to that part of the world - ever.
Similarly if I saw Karen in Centurion, the same alarm bells went off because she never comes to this part of the world except with Mark.

It is as simple as that.

To us - who do not know either karen or mark - it seems odd that you would know so much about your friend's wife. I mean, how do you know for sure, 100%, that she would never ever go to a certain place without her husband?

 

[Slootvreter]

Just curious what difference does it make if the advice comes from a male or a female?

Just as your previous thread about drugs where you stated you were only allowed to comment if you had taken drugs.

Stop discriminating and ease up will you. If you going to ask something be open to all opinions not just those that suit your pigeon hole.

Funny how quickly a woman will jump to an unknown sister's defense

 

[Dolby]

To us - who do not know either karen or mark - it seems odd that you would know so much about your friend's wife. I mean, how do you know for sure, 100%, that she would never ever go to a certain place without her husband?

You just know ...

 

[sdd]

You just know ...

Exactly ... that is guy code ....

 

[Serqet]

Funny how quickly a woman will jump to an unknown sister's defense

LOL just as funny as how quickly men say get in on the action bru

All is fair in love and war!

 

[Waaib]

This has actually happened to me. A mate called saying he'd seen my wife with another guy in the and they where laughing and joking and having a great time. He wasn't very happy when I told him that her boss from JHB was in town and she was doing sales calls with him that day.

I'm not sure why you would want to be clandestine about it. Just call him up and tell him what you think you saw but don't amp up the scandal. If they are married then chances are they either trust each other or have reason not to trust each other or don't care either way and in all cases you are fine because their relationship with each other has nothing to do with you.

Use this script and see how he reacts:- "Hussit Bro, I checked your wife in Rosebank today. Like what a coincidence, Hey shjoe-wow like she was with some oke in a car!". I reckon that's all you'd need to say and he could do the rest.

Edit: I do agree that if you see stuff you should tell your mate though. Guys rule number 1254. Just but no need to get stressed about it. If it's the truth then it's the truth.

 

[Nocturnity]

I understand and agree with the argument that she might be with a colleague/ work lunch/ etc .... you don't get it ....

It is like this ...
if someone came to me and told me that they saw my wife with a guy in, lets say, Alberton, I would be curious and suspicious. Because I know she never goes to that part of the world - ever.
Similarly if I saw Karen in Centurion, the same alarm bells went off because she never comes to this part of the world except with Mark.

It is as simple as that.

Dude! I was at Mark's place just the other day having a beer and Karen... No, wait...