Something strange happened at work today...

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So There is this girl I really like, she started in September and we have gotten really close over the last couple of months. So earlier this week she tells this story about this dude that liked her and that she quickly friend zoned the guy. but I also remember her being like "yeah I've been single for so long guys aren't interested in me" even though she is really attractive.
So after she tells me about the guy she friend zoned, I said that she is has very shallow views and she is shallow.
So this happened Tuesday or Monday. Today there was this weird animosity in the office. and at the end of the day she tells me she is actually very angry with me and she asks me what is my problem with her.

She was really angry I could hear it in her voice tone. I just said I do not have a problem with her.. afterwards there was this awful funk in the office for the last 30 minutes of the day. we did not speak again after this. And I feel like an idiot now...

My question is... How do you jump back from saying to a girl she is shallow?

My one friend told me her reaction might be a good thing because it means my opinion is important to her that's why it upset her... i don't know what do you think? am I a dumbass R Tard?

Can I bounce back from this?
 
If you feel you wrong apologise and be a man. Nothing worse than someone not being man enough to apologise.
She should respect you for this and then it's her move.
 
You said what you said because that's what you think. Don't apologise. It's too late anyway. You'll just look silly, especially after so long.
 
Tell her she heard wrong...you said marshmallow...she looks like a marshmallow
 
Naaah, I think you're right, she's shallow :twisted:
Move on. The next job will have nicer woman.
 
Using the word shallow on a girl that you are interested in was not the smartest move really. The damage has been done, if you haven't felt the need to apologise before now, then rather don't. Probably best to shrug it off and act like it is not a big deal. If you are the humorous type that makes her laugh, then play on that. Turn it into a joke somehow.
 
Hemi300c said:
If you feel you are wrong apologise and be a man. Nothing worse than someone not being man enough to apologise.
She should respect you for this and then it's her move.
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Should highlight this, if you feel that she really isn't shallow and your mouth ran away with you before your brain could catch up, then apologise. If you do think she is shallow, don't make excuses for it. Treat it like a non issue and move on with things.
 
Weigh out if it's really worth it... Apologise perhaps (be a man and all that), and if she asks then tell her your reasoning, but thats it. Don't beg or have to go to extreme lengths to justify your thoughts. If she really gives a damn about your opinion, then maybe she will hear you out. Remember though, there could be more to the story that she never let on...
 
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