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matt loves telkom

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I dont wanna be all emo or anything guys and im not even sure if im allowed to post this here .sure i will get some obvious disses and the norm but so be it.

Do you guys believe in the ONE? the guy/girl who will take your breath away and keep it that way for EVER? I dont know about the one but lately (well basically forever) i just cant get the fact in my head that this is possible.
I strongly believe alot of people dont settle down ,they just SETTLE.

Now im still kinda young but im getting to an age where im looking at myself and my life and asking how the f@#$ ive never been in a serious relationship.
If im still single in 5 years from now i will stoop to the lowest low i can think of an do the whole online dating thing :sick: :sick: :sick: Ok its not that bad but man it gives me the creeps just thinking how ppl actually believe they can get to know some1 over a Pc. Mxit,Facebook chat,msn is NOT real life. lol but yeah thats if i hit a low....

Ok so ive had a few flings before.2 girls were really stunning but the one was on holiday from Canada and the other moved to America :confused: Its like anything good that came my way just packed up and went home.Im not social enough which i can admit - on a friday night sometimes im exhausted and the last thing i wanna go do is get all drunk and throw up with the chinas and brus.I WILL NEVER go to a bar / lounge and approach a lady...NEVER gonna happen.i can hold a conversation with ladies for long and i dont have issues with making them laugh but man sometimes its all about the looks...sad but true.i also really dont dig the whole clubbing scene because its obvious when there are taller,sexier 6 packed ripped guys at the club to stand next to.

So let me just try and get to a valid point here. MYBB forum has tons of dudes talking about hardware,software etc etc etc but the topic of relationships is seldom brought up.Did you ever sit at some stage in your life and ask if you will be happily married one day with kids and the whole lot... or are you still sitting there questioning it like me.i know life is not all about getting married but relationships are one of the points in this ever confusing saga....

yeah man - share some stories - call me emo...lol just some feedback....its just getting more and more depressing week by week as my friends get further into thier relationships and i get further into my....nothing :o
i find myself on facebook,youtube , and mybb too much....i think its fair to say i need a life :P
 
There may be a one, but it's impossible to find him/her so in actual fact there isn't.
 
There is always a 'one' but you won't find that one while you look for them. When you are ready and she is ready, you will find each other. Just don't look for it. The online dating thing isn't the lowest of the low because as the old saying goes, if you don't put your rod in the water you don't stand a chance of catching a fish.

I met my 'one' on the internet seven years ago and have been happily married since then. Best thing I ever could have done. When you do eventually meet 'the' one, believe me, you'll know it.
 
Well i'm only 18 and have been wondering the same thing...

I have seen how people have met online and have really found the ONE, but for me i think you will know, those girls weren't the right ONES but the right one will come your way...
 
There is no such thing, why would there be? Any two persons can make it work if both parties try hard enough.
 
Why would you call her the ONE? We're forever changing as life goes on, which means our perception of the ONE will be changing as well. I've had like 2 the ONES already, all in different phases of my life. Add to that i wasn't even looking for these ONES they just happened to come along. Just get out there, start a conversation with a girl, seriously in years you'll figure out its not hard, just sprout random crap letting them know who you truly are...but in baby steps(there is a thing as TMI). Afterwards it'll come easily.

You say you get chicks to laugh, that's a good thing. Use that to your advantage coz either, you are truly funny and chicks will dig that, or you not funny at all WHICH STILL WORKS IN YOUR FAVOUR since the chick you talking to RRREEEEAAALLLLYYYY digs you.
 
Go buy a Hustler go to the bathroom, whack off...done... Cheaper than finding the "one". Plus you get a new "one" monthly.... everyone's a winner :D

But you'll never get a chick with a name like yours. Change it by deed poll to something like matt smith or matt vinyl....
 
waynegohl said:
what happens if THE ONE is part of A TWIN?
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:D:D:D Do you have to choose:(???

There is no such thing as " the one" Seriaas get over youself for feeling so important. ;) And another secret woman can and do love more than one man at a time.
 
matt loves telkom said:
So let me just try and get to a valid point here. MYBB forum has tons of dudes talking about hardware,software etc etc etc but the topic of relationships is seldom brought up.:P
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Do you read? I do think that almost every guy on here has asked about us lovelies at some time.
 
Almost. Even Pit complained about the fishing episode. But I did say almost :)
 
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