The one

Safferbeauty said:
That not cool about the cheating part. How does one deal with jealousy because I know from experience jealousy can be a serious relationship killer :(
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trust and jealousy can be a killer

....now i dont get jealous or anything ...theres too many woman for that ...if she wants to make you jealous then she a biatch ....

but trust is huge ...my x and i were together 3 and half years and i promise you not once did i ever say let me see the phone or let me see this or who you talk to and she was the same with me...cause we trusted each other and not once did we lose that by doing stupid things

thats why she was the "one"
 
Safferbeauty said:
That not cool about the cheating part. How does one deal with jealousy because I know from experience jealousy can be a serious relationship killer :(
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I think its a personality trait of a person, maybe due to up-bringing, etc.

Even though I've been cheated on - I'm not jealous - I've had cases were my fiancée goes out, has a good time - comes back - shows me photo's where she's surrounded by guys... it doesn't bother me, if she's going to cheat, I can't stop her.. if I find out, its a one strike rule.

I had a case recently where I picked her up at club after a bachelorette- couldn't find her, eventually found her at a table of three guys, they shat themselves and all gave me their drinks :p Ended up with three brandy and cokes.

Fiancee is a tiny bit jealous - but it doesn't come around often, so doesn't bother me.
 
AniV said:
It may seem corny, and sure, I've only got 4 years of marriage and 3 years of serious relationship before that to go on but.. when I met my hubby, it was only a few weeks before I knew to the bottom of my heart and soul that he was my other half. So I decided to talk to him about it. Turns out he felt exactly the same way about me.

I was perfectly happy being single until he came along, and I almost immediately KNEW.
And sure, maybe perhaps eventually someday we'll realise that something's gone wrong and we'll split up. But that hasn't happenned yet and the past 7 years have been pretty downright awesome.

You really do just KNOW. If you have any uncertainty, rather spend more time getting to know them. But you will reach a point where you will just know that they're right or they're not. For some people it takes longer to get to that point than others.
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My other half moved-in the day after the first night we...."hooked-up".... from zero to relationship in one day :p Came with dog and all.


Been together for four years now, wedding at the end of the year.
 
@xrapidx ...that was your chick :wtf: ...what you dont know wont hurt right :D

agh joking haha ...yeah it is true ..if she wants to she can and its the person but questioning her and accusing yet she can be the one who wont ever ever will onyl cause the relationship to go downhill
 
samr1wp said:
@xrapidx ...that was your chick :wtf: ...what you dont know wont hurt right :D

agh joking haha ...yeah it is true ..if she wants to she can and its the person but questioning her and accusing yet she can be the one who wont ever ever will onyl cause the relationship to go downhill
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Have you heard of STD's - they hurt - have you checked recently :D
 
Safferbeauty said:
A friend asked me the other day, how do u know when someone is the one or not?
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You ask Jet Li.


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xrapidx said:
Its in my vocab - I my SO knows my feelings well - I won't work at a relationship, I want my partner to be my best friend, but its not a job - if you have to work at it continually, something is wrong.

Fortunately, I think I found the "one" - because she puts up with my crap, and it doesn't bother her, and the same for her crap :p


When it comes to the "one - its better said as "the one right now"
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I like this :) but a differant school of thought to the always work on your relationship etc.. Put in some effort etc...
 
Safferbeauty said:
A friend asked me the other day, how do u know when someone is the one or not? I am deffinitely no expert in relationships and find it hard to tell. What can I say to my friend?
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I saw an old high school female class mate a few hours ago. She might be the one. Some amazing things happened to enable that she and i could hook up again. :love:
 
Safferbeauty said:
some interesting reading here lol. So who all is single here just out of interest sake
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I have a girlfriend, I don't think its about having the "one" I think its about filling ones needs or filling the gap for her and for me.
Relationships are about respecting one another, Giving space, Listening to the person, Fixing conflict patterns etc,

I think when both parties realize the potential of their companionship then they become the one, (also the one for each other).
 
Safferbeauty said:
A friend asked me the other day, how do u know when someone is the one or not? I am deffinitely no expert in relationships and find it hard to tell. What can I say to my friend?
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<romance>
It's when you can't see yourself living your life and making memories without that person at your side.
</romance>

You'll know when you know. If you have doubts, listen to them.
 
I have doubts on marriage. Even thou I think she is the one...
Lycanthrope said:
<romance>
It's when you can't see yourself living your life and making memories without that person at your side.
</romance>

You'll know when you know. If you have doubts, listen to them.
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Partly due to the fact of divorce and such,
not me but my parents often remarried a lot.
 
Nokkie said:
I have doubts on marriage. Even thou I think she is the one...

Partly due to the fact of divorce and such,
not me but my parents often remarried a lot.
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so you should actully be able to learn from that and see what your relationship is like compare to parents
 
The one is dead, for pete sake. :mad: Haven't you all seen the matrix. :p:D
 
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