Men who generalise about women...
Three women in my case.
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Men who generalise about women...
That's a lot of women for one case!
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Incredibly powerful pic, thank you. Rep for you.People who do not understand (or don't want to understand or accept) white privilege and people who whitesplain
People who do not understand (or don't want to understand or accept) male privilege and people who mansplain
People who immediately pull the "oh, you are being a victim" card when someone points out racism, sexism, homophobia, etc.
People who lack the humility and empathy to understand and accept the challenges of people from another culture, race, gender, gender-preference or creed.
People who refuse to accept that there are power balances that work really hard against certain groups that lead to those groups needing to organise themselves and express themselves in a very public way - whether as Gay Pride, or Black Lives Matter or whatever.
This past year with all the pressure-cooker hatred bubbling over has been hectic!
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Yes - this might well lead to a whole load more of racist, sexist, homophobic and otherwise chauvenist rhetoric and diatribe from especially the hardegat troll faction, but I am so gatvol of apartheid denialists and other bigots that it's just toughies.
People who do not understand (or don't want to understand or accept) white privilege and people who whitesplain
People who do not understand (or don't want to understand or accept) male privilege and people who mansplain
People who immediately pull the "oh, you are being a victim" card when someone points out racism, sexism, homophobia, etc.
People who lack the humility and empathy to understand and accept the challenges of people from another culture, race, gender, gender-preference or creed.
People who refuse to accept that there are power balances that work really hard against certain groups that lead to those groups needing to organise themselves and express themselves in a very public way - whether as Gay Pride, or Black Lives Matter or whatever.
This past year with all the pressure-cooker hatred bubbling over has been hectic!
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Yes - this might well lead to a whole load more of racist, sexist, homophobic and otherwise chauvenist rhetoric and diatribe from especially the hardegat troll faction, but I am so gatvol of apartheid denialists and other bigots that it's just toughies.
That's a lot of women for one case!
YupIncredibly powerful pic, thank you. Rep for you.
Cue Fred, Nick and the other bullies in 3..2..1
#1 - She says she's coming over and then no-shows. Following day she acts like it's no big deal.
#2 - Was her birthday on Friday and got upset that I didn't know. She tells me I should've checked facebook. Then Saturday evening she sends me a message saying I love you. That went from zero to overly attached gf real quick. I have no idea how to reply so I try to change the subject. She gets upset that I don't treat her right. Sunday afternoon I get multiple voice messages from her.
#3 - I think she's avoiding me. It always takes at least 2 hours for her to reply after she's read my messages. And I really liked her.
Special mention to the crazy chick on Friday who thought I was a cop and asked me to report the off-duty cop at in the parking area to his superior.
Lol, 99 problems and a biatch is three!
#3 should be the focus if she is the one you really like. Forget the messages call her up that way you will know soon enough if she likes you or not. She might just be playing hard to get (women love games just as much as men) it could be very well received and if not at least you won't waste any time on a no go.
This is just not true, have had a couple relationships go sideways because "You play too much games"...
I wasn't suggesting he plays games I said call up the one you like and get the story straight.
Maybe "games" wasn't the correct word to describe this dynamic.
A bit of playing hard to get is very normal in the beginning of the relationship and with some women might be a way to communicate her standards, build sexual tension or protect her heart.
Yeah I'm gonna contact her directly.
Right LOL, I should not have missed that one because my SO love's to play games! I complained about it and he was "well at least I am not in some bar" well that shut me up.I was kidding, play on words. You meant emotional games, I meant PC Games![]()