This girl I know...

[DerpiesFreud]

So there`s this girl I know,were`re friendly and shes really really smart,its highly attractive and slightly intimidating.
we can have intellectual discussions for hours at end,she knows me pretty well I`d say...which means she could have written me off too,I`m not exactly psychologically stable :erm:

Physically shes average....I don`t have pics but I do have a video/s

at this very moment I feel deep loathing....almost hatred for her,yet a few days ago I was mesmerized by her intellect.She breached through all my armor,saw through all my disguises,saw me for who I really am...and now my mind is full of ****

I`ve thought about telling her my feelings,but a relationship simply wont work due to reasons I wont mention.
I know for a fact that she has positive feelings for me,but weather they`re romantic....I have no idea

Last year I did tell a girl about me feelings,and now things are weird between us...ahwell
wonder how things will turn out now....
just me blowing off some steam

 

[OGroteKoning]

I also know a girl

 

[bromster]

If a relationship is off the table, then just don't do it. Enjoy the company of a like-minded person. They are few and far between. If your reasoning for not wanting a relationship with her is non-negotiable, you will inevitably end up where you started if you force it.

 

[DerpiesFreud]

I also know a girl

Nice dog...

If a relationship is off the table, then just don't do it. Enjoy the company of a like-minded person. They are few and far between. If your reasoning for not wanting a relationship with her is non-negotiable, you will inevitably end up where you started if you force it.

Oh I absolutely would love a relationship with her...its space and time that push it off the table
Surprisingly I feel pretty sane at the moment,and I agree that I shouldn`t say anything...Hmm maybe I could bring it up for discussion at our next psychological conversation,purely as a matter of interest


I agree with few and far between,I can count the number of people I`ve known like this EVER on one hand
OR
just to mind**** her,I could confess and observe her reaction to it....for the lulz
it`ll change our relationship yes,but it may also be much more entertaining!
oh the choices we have to make in life
I`m worried about if it starts gnawing away at me like the other girl,eventually I exploded and spilled everything

 

[OGroteKoning]

Nice dog...

Thanks

Oh I absolutely would love a relationship with her...its space and time that push it off the table
Surprisingly I feel pretty sane at the moment,and I agree that I shouldn`t say anything...Hmm maybe I could bring it up for discussion at our next psychological conversation,purely as a matter of interest

I think this is a good idea actually - having a psychological debate about relationships. She might say something you might want to hear.

I agree with few and far between,I can count the number of people I`ve known like this EVER on one hand
OR
just to mind**** her,I could confess and observe her reaction to it....for the lulz
it`ll change our relationship yes,but it may also be much more entertaining!
oh the choices we have to make in life
I`m worried about if it starts gnawing away at me like the other girl,eventually I exploded and spilled everything

There is nothing wrong with telling a girl what your feelings are like - she might feel the same way .... profit. And if she doesn't, it doesn't mean the friendship is blown. The girl I mentioned earlier... ... well, we hung out for a while and then one day I felt similar as you do with this one. So I told her about it. She promptly told me that we will just be friends in a very nice way. We remained friends for years afterwards and it was as if we never had that conversation.

After all that ... the best advice I can offer is - Live life unconditionally

 

[bromster]

just to mind**** her,I could confess and observe her reaction to it....for the lulz

This is you jokingly trying to justify something you actually want to do. Stop stuffing around and do it.

eventually I exploded and spilled everything

Just no explosions. Or spilling.

 

[DerpiesFreud]

This is you jokingly trying to justify something you actually want to do. Stop stuffing around and do it.


Just no explosions. Or spilling.

What I mean is,I confess that I like her,but be indifferent to her response,regardless of outcome
I did fake confess a few months when were weren`t as friendly ago as a joke,she apologized that shes not interested and she feels bad for breaking my heart.
but things have changed significantly...

Thanks

I think this is a good idea actually - having a psychological debate about relationships. She might say something you might want to hear.

There is nothing wrong with telling a girl what your feelings are like - she might feel the same way .... profit. And if she doesn't, it doesn't mean the friendship is blown. The girl I mentioned earlier... ... well, we hung out for a while and then one day I felt similar as you do with this one. So I told her about it. She promptly told me that we will just be friends in a very nice way. We remained friends for years afterwards and it was as if we never had that conversation.

After all that ... the best advice I can offer is - Live life unconditionally

Psychological debate is an awesome idea!,I already learn`t a lot about her from casual debates/conversations....shes an awesome friend,I`d hate to lose that.
and even if we remain friends,she`ll use it as leverage against me,though I`m pretty sure she feels similarly.
Something is bound to happen though,nothing ever stays the same

 

[googoodoll]

Would you like to marry her?

 

[Polymathic]

fine line between love and hate. my guess the reason that you loathe her was that you favored fancied her deep do down

 

[MR.C]

Tell her you can't do this anymore, she asks what, you say this friendship thing and see what she says. Maybe she misses the friendship and after a few days realises its not just a friendship but more than that.

Set yourself up for a no so in case it blows, you won't be messed up. If its a yes, you gonna be over the moon.

 

[I.am.Sam]

was this sex tape videos ?

sell it and make a profit

get rich and get to know more girls

 

[OMB]

I`m not exactly psychologically stable :erm:

until you get that sorted out, stay away from relationships

 

[3WA]

Go out with her, and some friends if that will make arranging things easier. Then pretend to get very drunk and flash her. Her response will tell you everything you need to know.

 

[Rocket-Boy]

Well Nuke, you are probably holding the record for the most "I dont know how to handle girls so I ask people on the internet" threads.
So err congratulations I guess.
Humberto must be taking that quite hard though so expect a new thread from him soon.

 

[Slootvreter]

Tell her you can't do this anymore, she asks what, you say this friendship thing and see what she says. Maybe she misses the friendship and after a few days realises its not just a friendship but more than that.

Set yourself up for a no so in case it blows, you won't be messed up. If its a yes, you gonna be over the moon.

Yeah well about girls missing friendship....I'm not sure how their heads work. A while back I've been romantically involved with this girl, and after 6 months she tells me 'Let's just be friends' So friends we are. Now she's back with her ex, and she tells me daily, almost badgers me, about what happened to our great friendship. Oh well.

 

[OGroteKoning]

Yeah well about girls missing friendship....I'm not sure how their heads work. A while back I've been romantically involved with this girl, and after 6 months she tells me 'Let's just be friends' So friends we are. Now she's back with her ex, and she tells me daily, almost badgers me, about what happened to our great friendship. Oh well.

Just tell her you pulled out ... and moved on

 

[googoodoll]

I`ve thought about telling her my feelings,but a relationship simply wont work due to reasons I wont mention.

Is she a guy?

 

[DerpiesFreud]

Would you like to marry her?

hell no

fine line between love and hate. my guess the reason that you loathe her was that you favored fancied her deep do down

yeah

until you get that sorted out, stay away from relationships

agreed...not that I`m going to listen though :erm:

Well Nuke, you are probably holding the record for the most "I dont know how to handle girls so I ask people on the internet" threads.
So err congratulations I guess.
Humberto must be taking that quite hard though so expect a new thread from him soon.

lol,human relations is an alien subject to me,and where better to ask than mybb!

I`m not sure where my insanity stops and my sanity starts....which is a bad thing
I walked past a psychologist/counselors office today....almost popped in.

I`ve also realised that I`ve been too friendly with her and her frends,so I`ll cold shoulder for a few days

 

[OGroteKoning]

I don't understand why people are so scared to pursue what they want ... Just go for it in a subtle way and see where it goes. You breed negativity and you will live by it - time for a change. And if it is a mess afterwards, just learn from it. Life is really not this difficult

 

[w1z4rd]

Take your meds.