This girl I know...

[googoodoll]

Why don't you just ask her for what you really want then. You are already friends and you aren't interested in marriage so only one thing left....

 

[DerpiesFreud]

I don't understand why people are so scared to pursue what they want ... Just go for it in a subtle way and see where it goes. You breed negativity and you will live by it - time for a change. And if it is a mess afterwards, just learn from it. Life is really not this difficult

I`m 5cm away from shooting off a message to her...however cold shoulder seems to be the best idea somehow in this twisted head of mine
and I know for a fact that she hates cold shoulders....so I`ll say I`ve been busy,atleast till my mental state stabilizes

Take your meds.

I probably should :erm:

Why don't you just ask her for what you really want then. You are already friends and you aren't interested in marriage so only one thing left....

I agree with you,though this introduction of distance should provide me with decent intel before I go in for the kill

 

[crysis]

so I`ll cold shoulder for a few days

Reminds me of the movie, "How to loose friends and alienate people." Regardless of what anyone says, the one universal truth of being a man, if you want something, go get it. (preferably before some one else does)

 

[DerpiesFreud]

Reminds me of the movie, "How to loose friends and alienate people." Regardless of what anyone says, the one universal truth of being a man, if you want something, go get it. (preferably before some one else does)

She just said she enjoys my company,and we had a quick chat about quantum mechanics
somehow I feel all desire to cold shoulder leave my mind
Im talking to her now...

 

[googoodoll]

Best advice I ever followed was to stay away from relationships.

Both parties will know if and when the time is right.

If you have to wonder about things it's probably not happening....

 

[ShaunSA]

Dude you were friend-zoned months ago already :erm:

 

[GreGorGy]

GAFL

I mean, ANOTHER loser thread.

I mean, sorry. Look, nuke, you post one of these chick threads quite regularly. Advice is given and them time passes - sometimes as much as a month - and we get another thread. Just ask one of these birds out already. And tell us if you came right or not.

 

[Rocket Raccoon]

What Rocket Lad said.

 

[azbob]

The next time you're sitting with her, put your hand on her lap and slowly work it upwards...

 

[OGroteKoning]

The next time you're sitting with her, put your hand on her lap and slowly work it upwards...

... in the same visit

 

[GreGorGy]

The next time you're sitting with her, put your hand on her lap and slowly work it upwards...

Damn Nukey, I was harsh - sorry. But you get my point: right now, the impression I have of your relationships are that you live them online, for this community. Stop doing that and bang one of these birds or you're gonna hit 30 alone regretting missed opportunities. Act on the advice shared here. Especially this. Take real action, not just some whiney flow of words. It is very difficult for a chick to say "Let's just be friends" when your tongue is busy cleaning her tonsils.

 

[azbob]

What you need is your own Francois Dillinger.

[video=youtube;jTA-Bq0m2qM]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jTA-Bq0m2qM[/video]

 

[DTBA]

When ever I see a new thread with the word girl in, it was started by nukefission :? Makes my wonder

 

[googoodoll]

I`m not exactly psychologically stable

bang one of these birds

Next problem will be 'how to be a psychologically stable father in the friendzone'

 

[MickeyD]

So you don't consider marriage as an option?

Then use protection and screw her brains out!

Life's short, enjoy the ride.

 

[googoodoll]

So you don't consider marriage as an option?

Then use protection and screw her brains out!

Life's short, enjoy the ride.

This girl I raped.....

 

[MickeyD]

This girl I raped.....

Consensual else he must GTFO and leave her alone forever.

 

[ShaunSA]

This girl I raped.....

Is that you Comrade?

 

[googoodoll]

Consensual else he must GTFO and leave her alone forever.

Well if the girl wants what he does it would have happened already....

Nuke - you want a relationship but don't want to get married so you are already predicting the end of the relationship. What do you really want then?

*Unless you don't believe in marriage but then I'll ask would you like to be her partner forever?
*Or unless by relationship you mean sex?

 

[DerpiesFreud]

GAFL

I mean, ANOTHER loser thread.

I mean, sorry. Look, nuke, you post one of these chick threads quite regularly. Advice is given and them time passes - sometimes as much as a month - and we get another thread. Just ask one of these birds out already. And tell us if you came right or not.

I have asked them out,things have happened!
one rejected me,other went out for a while then faked dying,haven't seen the last one in 4 months

The next time you're sitting with her, put your hand on her lap and slowly work it upwards...

... in the same visit

Ohh so thats what I`ve been doing wrong...

Next problem will be 'how to be a psychologically stable father in the friendzone'

I`ll be a great father!
My children might come out corrupted and traumatized but I`m sure its in their interests...

Consensual else he must GTFO and leave her alone forever.

Rape is bad...and immoral and illegal.

Well if the girl wants what he does it would have happened already....

Nuke - you want a relationship but don't want to get married so you are already predicting the end of the relationship. What do you really want then?

*Unless you don't believe in marriage but then I'll ask would you like to be her partner forever?*Or unless by relationship you mean sex?

I`m not too sure what I want really...
who knows maybe I`ll get drunk/high and confess one night