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So this girl, I've met a few times before. We went out on a whirlwind weekend a few weeks ago.

We get along like a house on fire, then my good friend, who is related to her stepmom; tells me that she's actually 3 months pregnant.

Total cock block, cos all I could do after that is look at the damn tummy, which does kind of shows signs of it.

So the only thoughts running through my mind is that she's looking to trap me right?

I then go to my darker self and reckon: Ok, I can still bag this gal and then confront her about the pregnancy whilst tossing her on her way.

And she's really been putting alot of effort into bagging her Sugar Daddy, as the father is a douchebag who has moved on and doesn't even know about the impending kid.

Quirky thing is. I've got her in my bed, but let her fall asleep. Now I'm in the lounge, sipping on a beer, not having made a move.

I thought it would be nice/fun, whatever my screwed up mind thought it would be to screw her over (Double Pun)

But then I reckon, it's not.

So I'm gonna down my beer and get in the other bed.

Self inflicted cock blocking... Not cool. :rolleyes:

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why not just have sex with her for a week or so then kick her to the curb? the mind boggles.
 
Fader4 said:
why not just have sex with her for a week or so then kick her to the curb? the mind boggles.
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That was the plan, but fsck knows why I'm not. (Another Double Pun)

But hell, she's already teaching herself a lesson. Do I really need to drive the point home. (Double Pun Fun Night)

Mmm @BlackBox, have a look at what specific forum this is posted in.
And then take note not to look in here again if it offends your geek senses.

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Dude for all you know she made a mistake with a dumbass which happens often. I think instead of worrying about the whole trap thing spend some time with her but don't nail her upfront dude. Don't treat her like she was treated by the look of it. It must hurt to get knocked up by someone who ducks. Then someone nails her and kicks her to the curb AGAIN. Good to see your dark side never determined the outcum.

She is more than likely feeling rejected and unwanted so just chill and make up your mind about her. Not the baby or your worries about her wanting to bag a sugar daddy. I think this time self inflicted cock blocking was a good thing. She could be the one!!! :D.

Ignore the comments about this being a tech forum.
 
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Maybe her stepmom doesn't want her baby getting boned by a horny sugar daddy and has been feeding her well for a while? (and made up the pregnant story)

If she's drinking she's prolly not preggies?!?!?
 
BlackBox said:
Do you really have to post this crap on a technical forum? WTF
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Do you really have to read it? It's the Health, wealth etc. sub forum. Easy to avoid if its not your thing.
 
killadoob said:
Dude for all you know she made a mistake with a dumbass which happens often. I think instead of worrying about the whole trap thing spend some time with her but don't nail her upfront dude. Don't treat her like she was treated by the look of it. It must hurt to get knocked up by someone who ducks. Then someone nails her and kicks her to the curb AGAIN. Good to see your dark side never determined the outcum.

She is more than likely feeling rejected and unwanted so just chill and make up your mind about her. Not the baby or your worries about her wanting to bag a sugar daddy. I think this time self inflicted cock blocking was a good thing. She could be the one!!! :D.

Ignore the comments about this being a tech forum.
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If the father doesn't know about the kid then I'm more or less certain she never bothered telling him about the kid. So in all fairness, with him "ducking" one could say that he just left her skanky ass because (evidence says) he's a douche bag.

She is not feeling rejected since she never gave the father the option to choose to stay or not. She's looking for someone else to take care of her and the baby. I can show you 1000 women and most would do the same thing ESPECIALLY if the father cheated (which I assume why he is such a douche bag to begin with) and she doesn't want to have anything to do with him.

The whole "weekend away" thing is just a test from her side to see how much he'll spend on her (because to some women, how much a guy spends on her willingly means not only can he take care of her but that equates to how much he cares FOR her)

Yes. You get on like a house on fire. I'm willing to lay my dick on the train tracks during peak hours and bet that she just haven't shown her true colors yet and that the reason you get a long so great is because she's willing to try to fool you (they don't do it on purpose, so forgive them) so that you could fall for her before any of the **** starts hitting the fan and you find out she's not all that.

And to those who want to argue that last point: Why hasn't she told him about the pregnancy if, what I said, wasn't true?

Get a fire fighter and dose those flames dude. The house is fundamentally flawed from the get go and you have to rebuild from the foundation up; which is usually a lot of ****ing effort. So I say, sell it as soon as possible and make it someone else's problem.
 
killadoob said:
Dude for all you know she made a mistake with a dumbass which happens often. I think instead of worrying about the whole trap thing spend some time with her but don't nail her upfront dude. Don't treat her like she was treated by the look of it. It must hurt to get knocked up by someone who ducks. Then someone nails her and kicks her to the curb AGAIN. Good to see your dark side never determined the outcum.

She is more than likely feeling rejected and unwanted so just chill and make up your mind about her. Not the baby or your worries about her wanting to bag a sugar daddy. I think this time self inflicted cock blocking was a good thing. She could be the one!!! :D.

Ignore the comments about this being a tech forum.
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I agree 100% I mean she must be going through hell at the moment (mind games with herself/future).Just giver her a chance and see
 
My advice is to just ask her why whe didn't mention the kid? Don't get confrontational, just talk to her about it. Let her know that if she wants a casual fling you're happy with it but you are not looking to be an insta-daddy. Maybe she wasn't being acynical bitch, maybe she thinks the kis is just not relevant right now.

Remember that abortion is an option and in this case probably a good one. You
 
I laugh you ditch her and find out later she was never gonna pop out a child ha ha ha. She might also have a miscarriage, u never know!
 
snail said:
I laugh you ditch her and find out later she was never gonna pop out a child ha ha ha. She might also have a miscarriage, u never know!
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Lol even if that happened she wasn't honest about it.
Abortion is not an option, she's been to a clinic and they ruled it out.(according to my source)

She came around, kind of, this morning: asking if I'd still be her friend if she was pregnant.

I said I would be, didn't get confrontational. She never came out and told me she is.

But when I asked her when she last had her period, she said December.

I kind of lol'd with her about her response.

We never really got much further into it.

I told her that I'd be her friend and support her in that manner.
Don't think I'll put myself any further on the line.

But she never told me to my face she is with child.

Anyway, will respond some more later, on the road.

@AcidRazor, the douchebag was abusive, so that's why she dodging his ass.

More later.

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Eish, wtf is wrong with people fscking each other over. I'm to old school for this world I reckon.
 
Not to start a race topic but I used to think girls having sugar daddies only applied to the black population only, I'm black by the way ;). Well if this girl's intention was to trap the sugar daddy then she deserves everything she's gonna get. Why use an unborn child for your own selfish motive? I feel sorry for the unborn child though, hopefully the father will support it.......
 
Sly21C said:
Not to start a race topic but I used to think girls having sugar daddies only applied to the black population only, I'm black by the way ;).
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Sorry but you are not special purely because you're black, it's common amongst all shades :D
 
Shake&Bake said:
Lol even if that happened she wasn't honest about it.
Abortion is not an option, she's been to a clinic and they ruled it out.(according to my source)

She came around, kind of, this morning: asking if I'd still be her friend if she was pregnant.

I said I would be, didn't get confrontational. She never came out and told me she is.

But when I asked her when she last had her period, she said December.

I kind of lol'd with her about her response.

We never really got much further into it.

I told her that I'd be her friend and support her in that manner.
Don't think I'll put myself any further on the line.

But she never told me to my face she is with child.

Anyway, will respond some more later, on the road.

@AcidRazor, the douchebag was abusive, so that's why she dodging his ass.

More later.

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Well thats very good of you :)
 
Shake&Bake said:
So this girl, I've met a few times before. We went out on a whirlwind weekend a few weeks ago.

We get along like a house on fire, then my good friend, who is related to her stepmom; tells me that she's actually 3 months pregnant.

Total cock block, cos all I could do after that is look at the damn tummy, which does kind of shows signs of it.

So the only thoughts running through my mind is that she's looking to trap me right?

I then go to my darker self and reckon: Ok, I can still bag this gal and then confront her about the pregnancy whilst tossing her on her way.

And she's really been putting alot of effort into bagging her Sugar Daddy, as the father is a douchebag who has moved on and doesn't even know about the impending kid.

Quirky thing is. I've got her in my bed, but let her fall asleep. Now I'm in the lounge, sipping on a beer, not having made a move.

I thought it would be nice/fun, whatever my screwed up mind thought it would be to screw her over (Double Pun)

But then I reckon, it's not.

So I'm gonna down my beer and get in the other bed.

Self inflicted cock blocking... Not cool. :rolleyes:

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Ok, here's the most important advice you will ever read....






....Have another beer :D
 
Hmm, she is three months pregnant and already in the bed at another guys house?? Drop it like its hot S&B!
 
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