MickeyD
RIP
I kept my kids on my Med Aid and paid for them until they had decent jobs. Was unplanned...Kids are expensive yes. I have a ways to go before that.
That leads to...
Tip #3: Education: ensure that your kids are either well educated or well qualified (artisan types) so that they are self-sufficient as young as possible. This will make a significant difference to your own finances later in life.