two faced liars

strange how some people have seen little evidence to suggest what i asked isn't true and even stranger that little evidence has been provided to suggest the same.

which ultimately leads me to believe the truth of the matter is whatever one chooses to believe which unfortunately does very little in terms of moving forward with this.

thank you for the comments even though it seems strange that comments from the females are along the lines of: just deal with it which implies some truth in what i may or may not choose to believe.

insightful.
 
strange how some people have seen little evidence to suggest what i asked isn't true and even stranger that little evidence has been provided to suggest the same.

which ultimately leads me to believe the truth of the matter is whatever one chooses to believe which unfortunately does very little in terms of moving forward with this.

thank you for the comments even though it seems strange that comments from the females are along the lines of: just deal with it which implies some truth in what i may or may not choose to believe.

insightful.

It's not strange. Your post was a statement. It wasn't really a question, more like a rhetorical question.

All people lie, it's part of the world, no one is exempt.
 
Yup, all people lie. Tera got it right... and two faced people... golly, dont know where to start with that.. though while thinking about it.. more males have lied or deceived me than females.
 
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All people lie, it's part of the world, no one is exempt.

u are right... i suppose everyone does.

i have been living with my house mate for what is just shy of 4 years when she suddenly upped and left to stay with her boyfriend ... which is cool... no problem we have our lives and it was further explained to me that she was actually pregnant.... which explains the irrational upping in the middle of a month.

we co-signed a lease which obviously means her rent she needs to provide, which she said she would continue to do so.

however today i am getting an alternative story. Now i have two options i can take.

Let the rental agents deal with her, however i will be in a vulnerable position with regard to staying in the house or alternatively pay her portion (which i can afford) of the rent considering she has left and alot of her stuff is still here i think with the hopes i may want to buy it.

anyway - its weird how people you have known for so long can change over night around things like money. ie become 2 faced liars. and this isnt the first time it has been a woman.
 
Seems like a sucky situation.

Your plan sounds as if it could work though. This may also prove to work out for the best though, should you choose to get a girlfriend/partner and live in the house as a couple.

Try to look at the good things regarding it ;)
 
Seems like a sucky situation.

Your plan sounds as if it could work though. This may also prove to work out for the best though, should you choose to get a girlfriend/partner and live in the house as a couple.

Try to look at the good things regarding it ;)

that is a big positive that has arisen from the situation and like i said nothing has crippled me. It just amazes me that people can change like that.
 
that is a big positive that has arisen from the situation and like i said nothing has crippled me. It just amazes me that people can change like that.

I understand.

I had a friend since I was in primary school (girl friend). We've been through everything together, had been friends for almost 12 years. In 2005 when I had my breakdown things started slowly going backwards between us. I haven't seen her in two years. She doesn't respond to my calls or sms's, she's just out of my life.

It hurts like mad, but I know it will be for the best I suppose, although I don't know what that is yet.
 
I understand.

I had a friend since I was in primary school (girl friend). We've been through everything together, had been friends for almost 12 years. In 2005 when I had my breakdown things started slowly going backwards between us. I haven't seen her in two years. She doesn't respond to my calls or sms's, she's just out of my life.

It hurts like mad, but I know it will be for the best I suppose, although I don't know what that is yet.


Other people's motivations and their way of dealing with things are very strange to grasp.

Mr Blu were friends with someone for a lifetime, approx. 20 years. We were overseas for 6 months in 2004 and this guy had access to Mr Blu's bank account and even had his cheque book - he was given a power of attorney to take care of business whilst we were gone.

When we returned, he did not want to relinquish the cheque book or the power of attorney. Long story short, we found out that he stole R 200 000 from Mr Blu by writing out small checks over a long period and using the power of attorney to take money from the bond.

When it came to light, he stopped calling, visiting,etc. We never hear from him anymore.

What a friend.
 
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Yep. Strange thing is though. It's one of the reasons I'm very reluctant to make new friends.

I've been screwed over so much by "supposed" friends, so it's definitely a fact that all people lie.

There's a heck of a storm coming today :eek:
 
But most.... You get a few that are really nice, but most of them just use men to get what they want.

(the same can be said about most men)

Crap world we live in.

Why so serious sonny boy?
 
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