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BoredHusband

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Yes. I created this account specifically to ask this question.

I have been married to my wife for quite a couple of years now. The sex is boring.

Every single time I have to do the initiation, and every single time it follows the same formula. It's very straight forward and vanilla.

So the question is, how do I broach the subject of getting her to try new things, be a bit more responsive? What suggestions do you have that will help a guy get things a little more exciting?

I would take any and all suggestions.

Thanks in advance,
BoredHusband.
 
Pull her hair, see if she likes it, take it one step at a time
 
BoredHusband said:
Yes. I created this account specifically to ask this question.

I have been married to my wife for quite a couple of years now. The sex is boring.

Every single time I have to do the initiation, and every single time it follows the same formula. It's very straight forward and vanilla.

So the question is, how do I broach the subject of getting her to try new things, be a bit more responsive? What suggestions do you have that will help a guy get things a little more exciting?

I would take any and all suggestions.

Thanks in advance,
BoredHusband.
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Buy her a toy. Tell her how much you love her and you want to see her happy so you want to try new things because it can only be good for the two of you. Then use said toy and go from there.
 
Solitude said:
Buy her a toy. Tell her how much you love her and you want to see her happy so you want to try new things because it can only be good for the two of you. Then use said toy and go from there.
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I have tried this. We used it once on my request, and never again after that.
 
OCP said:
Have you tried talking to her about it?????
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Of course I have. It normally ends up that we have a fight with her going through the whole "Oh, so I'm not good enough for you" thing. Difficult subjects like this always ends up in a fight as she feels I'm blaming her or something, does not matter how I try not make it sound like that.
 
ToxicBunny said:
I think maybe you need to try extreme measures then..

Get her high.... it should solve all the problems.
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She doesn't even like people who smoke weed, never mind smoke it herself. Unless you want me to drug her with some sort of pill. That's illegal.
 
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