Vasectomy - NOT!!!!

5 months for her to realise? yeah no this is suspect bra

~35 is super early menopause

I would ask some questions
 
Steamy Tom said:
5 months for her to realise? yeah no this is suspect bra

~35 is super early menopause

I would ask some questions
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We know each other for the last 19 years, dated for 18 years, married for 10 years... But working from home for the last 2 years has made me re-learn my wife on new level...

Weeks before the announcement, she was still having wine and eating junk, after the announcement, it's like she was reborn.

She was responsible with the first two laaitjies. If she suspected or knew earlier on, believe me, I would have noticed.

She was as shocked about the 'unplanned' pregnancy, but she is full of joy...
 
Caldo said:
We have 10 days left before the delivery... The family is hyped up.
I am over the shock now...

Will wait for the wife to recover and book me second op for late January...
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Hectic!

Met with a friend I last saw a decade ago and see she has triplets. She said she expected a single baby and out came triplets. First time mom.
 
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ijacobs3 said:
So here is my thoughts on this,

Gentlemen go for the "snip" to save the Mrs the whole schlep of getting tubes tied, mostly because men apparently recover quicker, less invasive, blah blah blah ( at least thats the excuse my wife is going with)

However, @Caldo , you are the 4th person i have heard of / known that this has happened to, where as with a woman getting tubes tied, as i understand, there isnt this 0.00000001% chance story
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So my wife opted to have her tubes tied when we had our seconds kid. She didn't even ask me to have a vasectomy. I would have though.
I can't tell you now I have regrets. Its been hectic for her and she has had hectic period pains since (and I'll leave out the extra details but its not been good) so the end result is that there has been even more "down time" where she really is not in the mood.
There used to be this sweet spot just before the down time where she was super keen but now that is when she gets her headache. Between that and kids who can't sleep though... its been hard.

I'll recommend to any other man, getting their own snip snip instead.
 
Nerfherder said:
So my wife opted to have her tubes tied when we had our seconds kid. She didn't even ask me to have a vasectomy. I would have though.
I can't tell you now I have regrets. Its been hectic for her and she has had hectic period pains since (and I'll leave out the extra details but its not been good) so the end result is that there has been even more "down time" where she really is not in the mood.
There used to be this sweet spot just before the down time where she was super keen but now that is when she gets her headache. Between that and kids who can't sleep though... its been hard.

I'll recommend to any other man, getting their own snip snip instead.
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Eish... Sorry man...
 
Little Mac said:
How sure are you it's the tube tying that's the cause?
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Mostly, My wife is a doctor so she does now more about these things. (Also her own body)
Then this didn't happen with our first child and both were C-sections. Apparently its a risk - perhaps why they always say let the boys do it.
 
Update for those wondering...


I have booked the 2nd surgery for next week.
Using the same Urologist, not sure if this a good idea, but ja...
As usual, he gave me the speech about it is not guaranteed and all those long stories.

But anyway... Take 2
 
Caldo said:
Update for those wondering...


I have booked the 2nd surgery for next week.
Using the same Urologist, not sure if this a good idea, but ja...
As usual, he gave me the speech about it is not guaranteed and all those long stories.

But anyway... Take 2
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So was the milk-man the daddy?
 
Caldo said:
Update for those wondering...


I have booked the 2nd surgery for next week.
Using the same Urologist, not sure if this a good idea, but ja...
As usual, he gave me the speech about it is not guaranteed and all those long stories.

But anyway... Take 2
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Well at least the next time she is pregnant it will be much easier to figure our what went down.
 
@Caldo I am glad you got to the bottom of this. So I was wrong to doubt your story:

rh1 said:

When Mothers Lie - Paternity Fraud | News24

Because our law is somewhat unclear in these cases, difficulty can arise when the mother of a child refuses to grant a paternity test, explains Bertus Preller.
www.news24.com www.news24.com

Extract:
In doing some research it is obvious that paternity fraud is a worldwide problem. For example, it was reported that, in California, there was a 20% chance that a child born to a married couple was not the biological child of the husband and in a contested paternity hearing, there was a 33% chance that the alleged father was not the natural father. A 2005 review of studies into so-called paternal discrepancy published in the British Medical Journal found that the rate was around 4% meaning 1 in 25 children is biologically fathered by someone other than the man who believes he is the father. A study in America found that more than 95% of woman would not tell a man that the child wasn’t his.
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rh1 said:
Here is a video of a woman past catching up to her:


The Wife tells her husband at the end the DNA results is fake and she is good christian woman who does not cheat. Maybe she was right.
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Moby Grape said:
Even simpler than search...
View attachment 1230300

It's 2 pages back.
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Smart Boy :coffee:

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