What couples fight about the most

NeonNinja

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#15 Sex

#14 Politics

#13 Money

#12 Kids

#11 Stress

#10 Religion

#9 Jealousy

#8 Housework

#7 Communication

#6 Work

#5 Family Fight

#4 Date Night

#3 Me Time

#2 Tradition

#1 Vacation

Source: http://tinyurl.com/oqmk7fm
 

spidaman

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I'm surprised 15 is even there?? :banghead:

What does she say? "I'm not in the mood today"?
 

NeonNinja

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She says she wants to donate a kidney to her uncle. Maybe that's #5. /Sigh...
 

Lycanthrope

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Next up, a telling insight into the life of Lycanthrope!

Nope.

#14 Politics
Nope.

#13 Money
We mutually moan about there never being enough.

Nope.

#11 Stress
Nope.

#10 Religion
Nope.

#9 Jealousy
Nope.

#8 Housework
We mutually moan about always having to do it, but we do it together at least twice a week.

#7 Communication
At last, we have a winner! My husband finds it difficult to communicate in general, he's become better at it over the years though. Again, not really fighting, but it does become frustrating.

Nope.

#5 Family Fight
Nope.

#4 Date Night
Every night's date night!

#3 Me Time
Might become an issue in the far off distant future, but we still enjoy each other's company.

#2 Tradition
Nope.

#1 Vacation
Who fights about vacations? I can only assume it's about "where?"

Never had an issue there.
 

ld13

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Ain't all of them intrinsically linked to one another? But I'll leave it at that ... before the SO finds this post :/
 

crackersa

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Next up, a telling insight into the life of Lycanthrope!

At last, we have a winner! My husband finds it difficult to communicate in general, he's become better at it over the years though. Again, not really fighting, but it does become frustrating.
Have you ever thought about improving your listening skills? :)

my gf says I don't know how to communicate, I told her she doesn't know how to listen. so we did a little test where i advised her to look at the current situation or what happened a few hours earlier. pay attention to the few words that are spoken. and she must tell her stories in 3 breaths or less, my attention span is that of a gnat so you gotta be quick.

oh and don't talk to me while i am distracted, i will agree to almost anything.
and if i say nothing is wrong, nothing is wrong! :)
 

OGroteKoning

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I am surprised at this list. My wife and I seldom argue (we never fight). The main reason being, she spends her time in the kitchen where she belongs and I watch TV. :D

Have you ever thought about improving your listening skills? :)

my gf says I don't know how to communicate, I told her she doesn't know how to listen. so we did a little test where i advised her to look at the current situation or what happened a few hours earlier. pay attention to the few words that are spoken. and she must tell her stories in 3 breaths or less, my attention span is that of a gnat so you gotta be quick.

oh and don't talk to me while i am distracted, i will agree to almost anything.
and if i say nothing is wrong, nothing is wrong! :)
I am surprised you managed all that typing :whistling:
 

Pooky

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Excellent source, really trustworthy. I'm sure they have conducted a myriad of studies to get to those results, observing couples through secret camera's, surveys throughout the world.
 

Ms_S

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We argue about #13 at least once a month.

Surprisingly we have argued about #1 a few times. I love going away because I hate our town so much, and make arrangements for mini breaks as often as possible. My husband will usually argue about it after the fact, and never before we leave.
 
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