What is wrong with me?!

mmmig said:
The skinnier one seems more edgy then the other one
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Then go for the bigger one. This thinner one will give your problems down the line and the bigger one will give you bigger plates of food eventually.
 
god invented an imagination for a reason you know. On behalf of all men - shame on you!!!
 
Hamster said:
Actually he is being honest. Why invest time flirting with and leading someone on you're just not attracted to whether it be weight, skin colour or whatever?
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Identical twins, he's attracted to the skinnier one, but not the fatter one? That's shallow. Like I said, she can lose the weight, he can't get rid of his shallowness
 
mmmig said:
So I go with some a friend and meet some his friends 2 of which are identical twins, I took a fancy to one of them and try to flirt with her to no avail, later that night her twin sister flirts with me but I have zero interest in her for some reason I didn't find myself the least bit attracted to her. The only difference between these twins is the one I didn't find attractive is just a tiny bit heavier. Am I that shallow?
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That's actually not surprising.

Your not in their league and the slightly chubbier one took pity on you and she has less issues with people not in their league due to her being the odd one out in the twin sisters she's not as picky. You messed up, just dust yourself off and try again with women more in your league



:p :D
 
envo said:
very shallow - at least she can lose the weight
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Is it less shallow to judge a man by his height?

Weight is actually an indicator of socio economic status.

envo said:
Identical twins, he's attracted to the skinnier one, but not the fatter one? That's shallow. Like I said, she can lose the weight, he can't get rid of his shallowness
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Sigh.

People judge each other about superficial things all the time. You are judging this guy by a comment he made on the Internet - you've never met him! That is the definition of shallow - you are judging someone you have never met or never seen using a very limited source of information, and using that to extrapolate about him.

Everyone is shallow almost all of the time. Its just that when someone has the guts to talk about it, to discuss who they like and who they don't like, people lose their minds. Why?
 
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Are the twins still at school? Size 28 (6) and 30 (8) is really skinny, anorexic supermodel sizes.
 
envo said:
Identical twins, he's attracted to the skinnier one, but not the fatter one? That's shallow. Like I said, she can lose the weight, he can't get rid of his shallowness
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Liking somebody and being attracted to them but then dropping them because they are or have become heavy - that's shallow
Not liking or being attracted to somebody because they are heavy but engaging them in a flirtatious way and giving them false hope - that's an *******
Being honest about not liking or being attracted to somebody because they are heavy - normal bloke being honest with himself
 
Ancalagon said:
Is it less shallow to judge a man by his height?

Weight is actually an indicator of socio economic status.



Sigh.

People judge each other about superficial things all the time. You are judging this guy by a comment he made on the Internet - you've never met him! That is the definition of shallow - you are judging someone you have never met or never seen using a very limited source of information, and using that to extrapolate about him.

Everyone is shallow almost all of the time. Its just that when someone has the guts to talk about it, to discuss who they like and who they don't like, people lose their minds. Why?
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+1 Give this man a Bells!
Nothing wrong with personal preference, its what makes us different and unique.

CamiKaze said:
Then go for the bigger one. This thinner one will give your problems down the line and the bigger one will give you bigger plates of food eventually.
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...Seriously, the thinner one will give you problems? Because. . . she is thin? Hell.
 
envo said:
Identical twins, he's attracted to the skinnier one, but not the fatter one? That's shallow. Like I said, she can lose the weight, he can't get rid of his shallowness
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So you completely and out of hand dismiss his capacity for growth?

You do know that you are being shallow in a certain sense too with that attitude?
 
SummerSmiles said:
...Seriously, the thinner one will give you problems? Because. . . she is thin? Hell.
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Ironically CamiKaze's comment is also shallow because he is judging the mental stability of a person he has never met based on a reported comment about her weight.

Everyone... just admit to being shallow and you will be much happier.
 
SummerSmiles said:
+1 Give this man a Bells!
Nothing wrong with personal preference, its what makes us different and unique.



...Seriously, the thinner one will give you problems? Because. . . she is thin? Hell.
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lol I was talking ish man... tongue in cheek humour.

I was touching on the fact that he should avoid edgy people... life is too short to be stuck with someone that gives you grief. :p
 
CamiKaze said:
lol I was talking ish man... tongue in cheek humour.

I was touching on the fact that he should avoid edgy people... life is too short to be stuck with someone that gives you grief. :p
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Fair enough, although I assume he meant edgy in the informal manner 'at the forefront of a trend; experimental or avant-garde.' :) so, doesn't mean she would give him any grief.
 
SummerSmiles said:
Fair enough, although I assume he meant edgy in the informal manner 'at the forefront of a trend; experimental or avant-garde.' :) so, doesn't mean she would give him any grief.
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Oh and welcome to the forum, where we talk lots of ish like this.
 
mmmig said:
So I go with some a friend and meet some his friends 2 of which are identical twins, I took a fancy to one of them and try to flirt with her to no avail, later that night her twin sister flirts with me but I have zero interest in her for some reason I didn't find myself the least bit attracted to her. The only difference between these twins is the one I didn't find attractive is just a tiny bit heavier. Am I that shallow?
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Depends if you are a size 28-30 pants and have 6 rectangle shaped muscles protruding from your belly...
 
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