What would YOU do if you ..

[Dolby]

You still have answered me. A sociopath can't love , they have incapacity for love, feeings, guilt and emotions. They use and they abuse to get what they want. You said you are one ... are you?

 

[xrapidx]

One thing I've learnt in life - once a cheater, always a cheater. You've been warned.

 

[Kuga]

So you probably don't even love her ?

It was more of a comfort thing, knowing someone is there waiting for me than love, yes. I don't really have feelings. If I do, it bounces from anger to depression and back.

Profile of the Sociopath

Glibness and Superficial Charm

Yes

Manipulative and Conning
They never recognize the rights of others and see their self-serving behaviors as permissible. They appear to be charming, yet are covertly hostile and domineering, seeing their victim as merely an instrument to be used. They may dominate and humiliate their victims.

Yes

Grandiose Sense of Self
Feels entitled to certain things as "their right."

Yes

Pathological Lying
Has no problem lying coolly and easily and it is almost impossible for them to be truthful on a consistent basis. Can create, and get caught up in, a complex belief about their own powers and abilities. Extremely convincing and even able to pass lie detector tests.

Not really, I just choose to leave out certain details.

Lack of Remorse, Shame or Guilt
A deep seated rage, which is split off and repressed, is at their core. Does not see others around them as people, but only as targets and opportunities. Instead of friends, they have victims and accomplices who end up as victims. The end always justifies the means and they let nothing stand in their way.

Yep definitely. My inner core is rage and anger.

Shallow Emotions
When they show what seems to be warmth, joy, love and compassion it is more feigned than experienced and serves an ulterior motive. Outraged by insignificant matters, yet remaining unmoved and cold by what would upset a normal person. Since they are not genuine, neither are their promises.

Yep

Incapacity for Love

See above statement

Need for Stimulation
Living on the edge. Verbal outbursts and physical punishments are normal. Promiscuity and gambling are common.

Yep, I have moments of rage where I just shout and scream. I do physically harm myself from time to time. Promiscuity not that much, concerned about HIV/AIDS, gambling yes big time.

Callousness/Lack of Empathy
Unable to empathize with the pain of their victims, having only contempt for others' feelings of distress and readily taking advantage of them.

Yep

Poor Behavioral Controls/Impulsive Nature
Rage and abuse, alternating with small expressions of love and approval produce an addictive cycle for abuser and abused, as well as creating hopelessness in the victim. Believe they are all-powerful, all-knowing, entitled to every wish, no sense of personal boundaries, no concern for their impact on others.

Yep

Early Behavior Problems/Juvenile Delinquency
Usually has a history of behavioral and academic difficulties, yet "gets by" by conning others. Problems in making and keeping friends; aberrant behaviors such as cruelty to people or animals, stealing, etc.

I used to do well at school. Friends yes, Cruelty nope not at all.

Irresponsibility/Unreliability
Not concerned about wrecking others' lives and dreams. Oblivious or indifferent to the devastation they cause. Does not accept blame themselves, but blames others, even for acts they obviously committed.

Yep

Promiscuous Sexual Behavior/Infidelity
Promiscuity, child sexual abuse, rape and sexual acting out of all sorts.

Not really no. Although I've had fantasies of violently raping people in my teenage years if that counts.

Lack of Realistic Life Plan/Parasitic Lifestyle
Tends to move around a lot or makes all encompassing promises for the future, poor work ethic but exploits others effectively.

Yep

Criminal or Entrepreneurial Versatility
Changes their image as needed to avoid prosecution. Changes life story readily.

Nope. Never been in court so haven't needed to do this yet.

 

[xrapidx]

So so very sad....

 

[Dolby]

I admire the honesty though.

For her sake, I hope she doesn't go out with you again though.

 

[RustyPrincess]

You "love her" and want her back, yet you are willing to post stuff on the net to get back at her?

You don't love her, you love the idea of her, and posting pics and vids is not going to do anyone any good, (*except for maybe a balding 58 year old single man who lives with his parents)

Don't do it, and even if she takes you back after your facebook email, you probably don't deserve her, just for even considering ruining her life, regardless of wether or not she broke your heart.

 

[Dolby]

regardless of wether or not she broke your heart.

I'm betting he broke her heart ...

 

[Kuga]

She broke mine.. And I suppose you're right, if I did love her I wouldn't want to go and do all this crap.

I'm sorry for any inconvenience caused, I just realized how ****ed up I actually am and gonna go see a psychiatrist. Can someone lock this thread please?