Why do people cheat?

Random Hero said:
Sadistic, Selfish, Sociopathic bag of douche, why deliberately break someone heart? who are you ****in Taio Cruz... Its saddens me that you have this selfish view of life.. you pretty much wrecked people who could have given more to someone who deserves it. now they are probably in such an emotional state that they turn into a sadist like yourself and creates a cluster **** that grows like a pyramid scheme... great job dude

Maar onthou...

Die wiel, hy draai.
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Hell, to be fair, he was still young when he did all that. Lots of people behave that way at uni. I wouldn't like an "open" relationship, but at least it is an honest one.
 
CamiKaze said:
Because they seem to be happy but they are really not.

Read this on FB the other day:
It is considered "responsible" to seek another job while you already have one, it is considered cheating to seek another GF while you have one.
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A very silly statement as your job is not a life and does not have the same value as a human does...

Cheaters = self-centered people who care for nothing except themselves...
 
So why the question to begin with - were you on the receiving end of it (very recently), because it sure seems like it - as you pass judgement and condemnation on opinions expressed throughout the thread for the question you asked and requested peeps to express their opinions.

I just find it very curious that you would do that.

Random Hero said:
Why do people in seemingly happy relationships cheat?

I wonder if its psychological to be so deceptive...

What's your opinion?
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Random Hero said:
Deception should be a mental thing, I think...

I cant even imagine deceiving someone i love in that type of way.. even if the most beautiful woman on earth tried to seduce me..
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Random Hero said:
douche confirmed...
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iDOL said:
So why the question to begin with - were you on the receiving end of it (very recently), because it sure seems like it - as you pass judgement and condemnation on opinions expressed throughout the thread for the question you asked and requested peeps to express their opinions.

I just find it very curious that you would do that.
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Well if we take into account OP's previous emo threads, I'd say he discovered that chick from those threads is seeing someone else.
 
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Agreed, I just find it very judgemental to request opinions and then to subsequently drown them in your caustic judgement.

Random Hero said:
Why do people in seemingly happy relationships cheat?

I wonder if its psychological to be so deceptive...

What's your opinion?
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Random Hero said:
Deception should be a mental thing, I think...

I cant even imagine deceiving someone i love in that type of way.. even if the most beautiful woman on earth tried to seduce me..
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Rocket Raccoon said:
Well if we take into account OP's previous emo threads, I'd say he discovered that chick from the those threads is seeing someone else.
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bokdrol said:
Hell, to be fair, he was still young when he did all that. Lots of people behave that way at uni. I wouldn't like an "open" relationship, but at least it is an honest one.
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is it fair that a 10 year old child kills a fellow learner at school because he was young when he did it?

is it fair when a group of you boys sexually assault a younger girl with a mental disability and pays her R2 to keep quiet?

No... That is called: Being Evil.

Baxteen, the brick*****house over here premeditated his intentions.. he wanted to hurt people emotionally and thought he was cool, when in reality he was just n pathetic piece of human excrement. So hopefully he changed his ways. but his actions are unjustifiable and not fair at all.. If he wanted to pomp al die cherries in die Oosrand, then he should have done it with girls who are disgusting sluts and naai'd his early 20's away. Instead he wanted to gain innocent peoples trust just to completely **** them over.

If you really think about it its actually sickening.. He was in university, which means he should have a brain.. an intelligent man betraying people for self gain.. now that's dangerous. Makes me wonder of his professional life and the betrayals there.
 
Random Hero said:
is it fair that a 10 year old child kills a fellow learner at school because he was young when he did it?

is it fair when a group of you boys sexually assault a younger girl with a mental disability and pays her R2 to keep quiet?

No... That is called: Being Evil.

Baxteen, the brick*****house over here premeditated his intentions.. he wanted to hurt people emotionally and thought he was cool, when in reality he was just n pathetic piece of human excrement. So hopefully he changed his ways. but his actions are unjustifiable and not fair at all.. If he wanted to pomp al die cherries in die Oosrand, then he should have done it with girls who are disgusting sluts and naai'd his early 20's away. Instead he wanted to gain innocent peoples trust just to completely **** them over.

If you really think about it its actually sickening.. He was in university, which means he should have a brain.. an intelligent man betraying people for self gain.. now that's dangerous. Makes me wonder of his professional life and the betrayals there.
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Yup, she definitely cheated on RH.
 
iDOL said:
So why the question to begin with - were you on the receiving end of it (very recently), because it sure seems like it - as you pass judgement and condemnation on opinions expressed throughout the thread for the question you asked and requested peeps to express their opinions.

I just find it very curious that you would do that.
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Rocket Raccoon said:
Well if we take into account OP's previous emo threads, I'd say he discovered that chick from those threads is seeing someone else.
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Well I was cheated on in my high school relationship. but got over it within a week it wasn't real love.

my first love and I broke up last year because of me being an outgoing person and wanting to party while she was more of a hermit stay at home type. I really loved this girl and she still calls and text me every now and then but it did not work because we lived to far from each other and the fighting destroyed us.

The new girl that I really liked was just really really crazy, and I still feel attachments to my first love so getting over her is not a mission. we broke it off a week ago because of a fight we had and her being a crazy control freak.

So I was cheated on once. but I have seen people close to me being deceived and it kills me to see their pain. I put myself in other peoples shoes and I can not completely experience their devastation, but have extreme empathy for the.

Here is the story that affected me the most:

A close relative of mine who is the best person you will never meet, he is friendly kind, always helps out, hard working, intelligent goal driven, wealthy because he works hard and just the best example of a person you can ever meet!
So he was married to a woman for a decade, she had to do work abroad for a couple of months.
He agreed to this as technology allows us to easily keep in touch and he wanted her to pursue her career goals.
When she came back, things became weird.. she acted weird and a couple of months later wanted a divorce.
Before the were divorced she had the child of another man. so she probably ****ed around the entire time but while still in wedlock had another mans kid.
So WTF! Why destroy a decade of marriage.

I lived with them for two weeks and always looked up to their relationship, because I wanted that. Nice house in a estate, dogs cats.. cuddles in front of the TV at night, holidays and get away together.. adventures.. It seemed so perfect.. until the day he told me they are getting a divorce.. now this ****ing slag ****ed him up emotionally and is happy with her bastard child and with some guy.. I hope she gets what she deserves..
 
hahaha shame poor little RH, after all the emo bull you have put this forum though. tisk tisk.

and thanks for the compliment, I do have a brain, and yes smart people with emotional detachment like myself are quite dangerous.
there is also no need for name calling. you better liven up or I will simply conquer your next conquest because I am clearly more skilled than you.


And to whoever asked about me currently.
it works like this:
me: she is hot, I would tap that.
SO: meh she is ok, I don't mind her, feel free.
Me: you sure?
SO: yeah I don't mind, she looks like she could leave some interesting stories...

I then start working my magic. eventually the girl will either say, F off buddy or she will say, but what about your SO? I then let her ask the SO, in person (or over the phone) if it is ok. this gives the SO another chance to veto (it has happened at this point and I was not mad about it at all, I promise, no sarcasm)
we then hook up
then when the SO and I are together again, we talk about it, usually she asks more detailed questions, I give as much detail as I can, and we end up having a very fun night after the discussion.

and before someone goes crazy, the same applies for her. and we follow the same process.
guys find it much more difficult to ask that question than women do btw.
I think it is because women kind of think we are trolling and she will say no.

for either of us, cheating would be hooking up with someone the other person has said no to.

2 important things
I choose for me and she chooses for her. no exceptions, ever.
if the other person says no, you leave it. there will always be a reason given. even if it is I dont trust him/her, that is a reason, respect it.
 
Baxteen said:
hahaha shame poor little RH, after all the emo bull you have put this forum though. tisk tisk.

and thanks for the compliment, I do have a brain, and yes smart people with emotional detachment like myself are quite dangerous.
there is also no need for name calling. you better liven up or I will simply conquer your next conquest because I am clearly more skilled than you.


And to whoever asked about me currently.
it works like this:
me: she is hot, I would tap that.
SO: meh she is ok, I don't mind her, feel free.
Me: you sure?
SO: yeah I don't mind, she looks like she could leave some interesting stories...

I then start working my magic. eventually the girl will either say, F off buddy or she will say, but what about your SO? I then let her ask the SO, in person (or over the phone) if it is ok. this gives the SO another chance to veto (it has happened at this point and I was not mad about it at all, I promise, no sarcasm)
we then hook up
then when the SO and I are together again, we talk about it, usually she asks more detailed questions, I give as much detail as I can, and we end up having a very fun night after the discussion.

and before someone goes crazy, the same applies for her. and we follow the same process.
guys find it much more difficult to ask that question than women do btw.
I think it is because women kind of think we are trolling and she will say no.

for either of us, cheating would be hooking up with someone the other person has said no to.

2 important things
I choose for me and she chooses for her. no exceptions, ever.
if the other person says no, you leave it. there will always be a reason given. even if it is I dont trust him/her, that is a reason, respect it.
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You have some sick parasitic circles dude.. how old are you?
 
Random Hero said:
Well I was cheated on in my high school relationship. but got over it within a week it wasn't real love.

my first love and I broke up last year because of me being an outgoing person and wanting to party while she was more of a hermit stay at home type. I really loved this girl and she still calls and text me every now and then but it did not work because we lived to far from each other and the fighting destroyed us.

The new girl that I really liked was just really really crazy, and I still feel attachments to my first love so getting over her is not a mission. we broke it off a week ago because of a fight we had and her being a crazy control freak.

So I was cheated on once. but I have seen people close to me being deceived and it kills me to see their pain. I put myself in other peoples shoes and I can not completely experience their devastation, but have extreme empathy for the.

Here is the story that affected me the most:

A close relative of mine who is the best person you will never meet, he is friendly kind, always helps out, hard working, intelligent goal driven, wealthy because he works hard and just the best example of a person you can ever meet!
So he was married to a woman for a decade, she had to do work abroad for a couple of months.
He agreed to this as technology allows us to easily keep in touch and he wanted her to pursue her career goals.
When she came back, things became weird.. she acted weird and a couple of months later wanted a divorce.
Before the were divorced she had the child of another man. so she probably ****ed around the entire time but while still in wedlock had another mans kid.
So WTF! Why destroy a decade of marriage.

I lived with them for two weeks and always looked up to their relationship, because I wanted that. Nice house in a estate, dogs cats.. cuddles in front of the TV at night, holidays and get away together.. adventures.. It seemed so perfect.. until the day he told me they are getting a divorce.. now this ****ing slag ****ed him up emotionally and is happy with her bastard child and with some guy.. I hope she gets what she deserves..
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That's life. You have no control over what other people do. You can get angry about it or you can learn from it.
 
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