WHY DO WE KEEP DIGGING THEN??

[Xena1]

Hi there .

I always believed that having full knowledge about something would empower me and at least bring closure to some situations, and help me to understand other situations and even people better. It works that way in some cases. But sometimes we discover things that we didn't know that is very hurtful to us. Yet we have this weird sick compulsion to keep digging out the truth until there is nothing more to find even though it is devastating to us. Sometimes the truth that we don't know can't hurt us, but when we find out that some info has been kept away from us it enrages and hurts us even more. So, should we know, or shouldn't we, and why do we keep digging when it hurts ? Any thoughts on this?

 

[TehStranger]

Hi there .

I always believed that having full knowledge about something would empower me and at least bring closure to some situations, and help me to understand other situations and even people better. It works that way in some cases. But sometimes we discover things that we didn't know that is very hurtful to us. Yet we have this weird sick compulsion to keep digging out the truth until there is nothing more to find even though it is devastating to us. Sometimes the truth that we don't know can't hurt us, but when we find out that some info has been kept away from us it enrages and hurts us even more. So, should we know, or shouldn't we, and why do we keep digging when it hurts ? Any thoughts on this?

Your post made my brain hurt.

 

[Xena1]

Hehe.... sorry dude not my intention . Your thoughts.... pleeeeeaaze? Just think a little bit for me.

Your post made my brain hurt.

 

[D3nz]

OP, I think only females would understand your post

 

[TehStranger]

Hehe.... sorry dude not my intention . Your thoughts.... pleeeeeaaze? Just think a little bit for me.

No thanks Eks.

 

[ShaunSA]

OP, I think only females would understand your post

Sounded more like the ramblings of a mad woman. No wonder you understood it

 

[Xena1]

So this is a uniquely female thing? Finding out stuff that you are not sure you wanted to know?

OP, I think only females would understand your post

 

[longboy]

I need a strong double shot of whiskey before I can think of a reply to that.

 

[MartyMarts]

Get high. Forget. Move on.

 

[Xena1]

Not mad or crazy :wtf: ok... maybe a little bit unwell :erm:

Sounded more like the ramblings of a mad woman. No wonder you understood it

 

[D3nz]

Sounded more like the ramblings of a mad woman. No wonder you understood it

Ok you really need to stop pretending you're a guy. I've seen the pics remember

 

[Ninja'd]

Ok you really need to stop pretending you're a guy. I've seen the pics remember

Androgeny?

 

[D3nz]

So this is a uniquely female thing? Finding out stuff that you are not sure you wanted to know?

Kind of. Unless you're a guy who's ruled by his emotions, in my opinion anyway.

 

[Xena1]

Too scared to tackle the issue.... too bad so sad . Mouse or men?

 

[Xena1]

So men don't feel hurt when they find out their girlfriends cheated on them or whatever?

Kind of. Unless you're a guy who's ruled by his emotions, in my opinion anyway.

 

[Electric]

I'm guessing he piihb and you just found out?

 

[Compton_effect]

Sometimes ignorance is bliss.

 

[ShaunSA]

Ok you really need to stop pretending you're a guy. I've seen the pics remember

Stalker!

 

[Beachless]

Since you are so good at digging why dont you find out yourself?

 

[D3nz]

So men don't feel hurt when they find out their girlfriends cheated on them or whatever?

Absolutely they feel hurt, but not every man is going to be digging deeper.