Wife issues [Solved]

So who thinks the wife is still going to bang the ex?
She's definitely going to. Probably will start using telegram or something with an auto-delete function. But yes, this is far from over. The OP thinks he got it sorted, except now, those trust issues will fester in her, turn to resentment, and this lawyer ex has a challenge to conquest. It's going down for sure.
 
I have been a long time purveyor of this site and have created an anonymous profile.

Just seeking some relationship advice.

Background: my wife and I have know each other since 17 years old, we are both 33 now, dated for approximately 5 years tied the knot and were married at 23, with 2 boys ages 6 and 3.

Recently she has been overprotective of her phone, I am not the one to go snooping but was finding it very odd. Last night I managed to get a hold of it when she was putting the kids to bed.

It turns out she has been chatting to her only ex boyfriend since June last year. She initially asked some law advice from him but has turned into a reminiscing about old times with some flirting. She sent him a pic of her from when they were going out in 2003. She is a Dr and has invited him for a consult to meet, he is a lawyer and invited her to go to court with him and she agreed. He is married with no children.

I do not think they have met as yet as nothing in the messages alluded to it.

I am so fusking lost at the moment, really don't know what to do or who to speak to. I want to confirm her tonight about this after kids are asleep. I could not sleep the entire night.

She has been the type to cheat and is quite against it. But fusk I don't know what is and what isn't anymore


Dude, grow some balls, learn the truth about female nature:


if you want to skip the first part start watching from 9.52


If you suspect your wife:
0. Kids are TOP PRIORITY, their interests come before yours and your wife's, not negotiable.
1. Move a lot of your money to a safe place (Think overseas bank accounts, trusts etc).. If you cant do that all in one go, start siphoning it into a place that is not easy for your wife, the government etc to get to.
2. Gather intel, but dont get paranoid.
3. Secretly emotionally detach (watch some MGTOW youtube videos).
4. Dont let her know what you know, knowledge is power.
5. Wait.
6. Stay on the ethical good side, that means, let others do wrong if they have to, but you should always strive to be more ethical and moral for your own conscience.
7. keep a diary, and record arguements and any time she is abusive record the evidence, (video, audio)
I have been a long time purveyor of this site and have created an anonymous profile.

Just seeking some relationship advice.

Background: my wife and I have know each other since 17 years old, we are both 33 now, dated for approximately 5 years tied the knot and were married at 23, with 2 boys ages 6 and 3.

Recently she has been overprotective of her phone, I am not the one to go snooping but was finding it very odd. Last night I managed to get a hold of it when she was putting the kids to bed.

It turns out she has been chatting to her only ex boyfriend since June last year. She initially asked some law advice from him but has turned into a reminiscing about old times with some flirting. She sent him a pic of her from when they were going out in 2003. She is a Dr and has invited him for a consult to meet, he is a lawyer and invited her to go to court with him and she agreed. He is married with no children.

I do not think they have met as yet as nothing in the messages alluded to it.

I am so fusking lost at the moment, really don't know what to do or who to speak to. I want to confirm her tonight about this after kids are asleep. I could not sleep the entire night.

She has been the type to cheat and is quite against it. But fusk I don't know what is and what isn't anymore
 
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you know we all want to see now
I have posted a few pics of her and links to where you can see more pics of her. But the one that seems to have stuck with most here is this one.

Yeah she was out of my league - but I can be very persistent. Worked out pretty well for her, just had to wait 8 years before I was hot.
 
I have posted a few pics of her and links to where you can see more pics of her. But the one that seems to have stuck with most here is this one.

Yeah she was out of my league - but I can be very persistent. Worked out pretty well for her, just had to wait 8 years before I was hot.
You're still not hot.
 
pretty much this happened. Went better than expected. Shes happy to not speak to ex. Didnt give an F that i went through her phone, even mentioned that she wanted me to see it.

I may have over reacted, other issues came up. we both agreed to work on things to make it better.

In any event, back to marriage bliss.

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I have posted a few pics of her and links to where you can see more pics of her. But the one that seems to have stuck with most here is this one.

Yeah she was out of my league - but I can be very persistent. Worked out pretty well for her, just had to wait 8 years before I was hot.
She's flying towards the wall dude,


...........

“The Wall” is slang for the point in time when a woman’s physical beauty suffers a steep decline. They age rapidly, get very fat, etc. Women typically (assuming they are fit) are very attractive from 18-25ish. After 25 their looks begin to deteriorate. Usually by 30 they start to fall off a cliff. Now, this applies to fit, healthy women. There are a lot of binge drinking, slut college girls who hit the wall at 22.
The Wall is one of nature’s most beautiful sights. It is the Great Equalizer.
It means that time in a woman’s life when she is no longer attractive to men at large, so she receives no further special treatment from society based on her looks.
For most modern women, this is the time that she truly begins to be on her own. She is forced to reflect on how fleeting beauty is, and now that for the rest of her life she will have to rely on her personality and hard-earned skills to get by. Now there are some exceptions to this rule, but they are very hard to come by.
 
Interesting read, and yes it is very true. She is nearing 40 now but made a few changes recently which did shave a couple of year from her appearance.
I see you want to sleep in the lions boot. Does your wife know you posting pics of her?
Well, she knows she has a .com :sneaky:
 
So yeah the crocs ...
it's exactly what I thought when I saw the pic. CROCS are tasteless and repulsive.
next thing I thought was: wow this dude is seriously posting a picture of his wife on a forum????
every day, I'm more and more surprised at humanity. what have we become?
 
Dude, that pic is from 2005, back then many people wore crocs. I only posted it (again) because someone brought up the crocs then and also because, as I said, I have posted that one many years ago. Some of the long term forumites have actually met me any my wife and there is a lot of her on the internet, apart from her site.

You're still new here. Give it time and maybe you'll settle in.
 
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