Wives are sex objects

[Keeper]

Nearly every man I know has the same issue.

dude, with every post you're delaying my wedding by 3 years

we need a poll on this...... this just can't be

Can anyone else confirm this??

 

[marine1]

Are you living together?
Bud take some free advice.....once you get married, the sex STOPS. I am not saying all the relationships are like this but nearly every one I know of.
Women stop wanting to bonk.
Dont know why.

 

[cryptic1]

Are you living together?
Bud take some free advice.....once you get married, the sex STOPS. I am not saying all the relationships are like this but nearly every one I know of.
Women stop wanting to bonk.
Dont know why.

I have to agree, unfortunately. For some unknown reason they proly feel that they've gained a possession or trophy of sort and now there's nothing else to bonk for. Or when they ready then they'll give u some and then...starve u b@#stard for while until I need to buy something and need ur credit card lol .

No seriously - 'No sex please we married'

 

[marine1]

I have to agree, unfortunately. For some unknown reason they proly feel that they've gained a possession or trophy of sort and now there's nothing else to bonk for. Or when they ready then they'll give u some and then...starve u b@#stard for while until I need to buy something and need ur credit card lol .

No seriously - 'No sex please we married'

Couldnt have put it better if I tried.
If only I had known then what I know now.
As soon as the honeymoon period stops, it is over.
I really dont understand it.

Oh and SEX is a weapon for women.

 

[Keeper]

*shakes head*

no....no........this can't be true............



not my GF......never.........

 

[cryptic1]

*shakes head*

no....no........this can't be true............



not my GF......never.........

There, there... stand up and introduce yourself to the group Keeper

 

[marine1]

Ha thats what I said about my fiance', sex was amazing in the beginning, all the time whenever I wanted.
Now I have to beg or borrow or even steal from her
Good luck bud.
They all change

 

[rorz0r]

Eish tell me about it marine1... Oh how naive I was a few years ago. (like Keeper)


They say if a woman puts a coin in a jar every time you have sex during the first year of marriage, and takes 1 out every time after the first year the jar will never empty.

Well I'm not even married yet (well maybe under that common law thing) and the big "change" has happened.

 

[marine1]

Yip seems to be the nature of the beast. You have all been warned.

 

[killadoob]

is that really true - I can't think that could be possible, women needs sex as much as men do....

perhaps you just got more before the wedding, so you wouldn't change your mind and embarrass her in front of her family

No no dude, believe me the first year you are together you F like rabbits after that the slow grind is about to start.

Move in sex is gone apart from when you do dishes or washing. You can try everything in the book to get laid and nothing but goodness the one time in the month she wants it well you better be ready .

Marriage would not never happen to me unless i wanted to be with someone just to be. Sex is everything to me and when that dies so does the relationship. i had been very unhappy and almost depressed at the state of my sex life and lack of interest by fiancee. You start questioning am i good in bed or do i suck or something, why does she not want to have sex ever.
A few buddies have told me the same thing and we moan about it everytime we get drunk . Marine has it spot on with what he says. They use sex to hook us and then use it to get us to do stuff

Keeper dude get married if you enjoy playing with yourself or as alan says: The sex will stop and she will even interrupt you when your playing with yourself. Don't ask who alan is because you should know no not the forum alan.

 

[Arthur]

Old truism:

Women give sex in order to get love.
Men give love in order to get sex.

Antenuptial sexual relations are like Mugabenomics - both feed current appetite by expropriating the future. When you eventually get to the future that yesterday's profligacy expropriated, it looks a lot bleaker than you thought.

Here's a surefire tip for guys: If you want to make sure you get more sex after marriage than before, don't have sex with a person you're not married to.

And a tip for gals: If you want to make sure you get more love after marriage than before, don't have sex with a person you're not married to.

Bonus tip: Sex is proper to marriage alone. Only the strong bonds of marriage can tame this lion.

Sooner or later your marriage/relationship will be tested and come under great pressure (if it's not, you're not seriously engaged or challenged). If you've accepted that's it's OK to sleep with someone you're not married to, what's to stop that from happening when the marriage gets tough, as it most assuredly will? After all, the principle has already been established - it's just a question of how much pain you can take before it happens again and one or both go elsewhere to find what they need. And so the cycle continues. Hurting, unfulfilled hearts. Hurting, damaged kids.

(Sorry, I don't mean to sound preachy, which is gross. It's just a reminder rather than a sermonette.)

 

[killadoob]

What stops the sex from dying 6 months into the relationship arthur? Can you guarantee me i will get sex 3 days a week for the rest of my life if i abstain. not sex before marriage is another play to get men to marry chicks faster , also arthur what if she only likes missionary man, I COULD NOT SCREW MISSIONARY FOR THE REST OF MY LIFE, even at 3 times a week.

Basically men are so ruled by pu$$y it is rather alarming.

 

[Arthur]

What stops the sex from dying 6 months into the relationship arthur?

Very few men ever think about sex.
We slobber about it, pant for it, dream and burn for it. But that is not thinking.

You already know the most powerful sexual faculty is the mind. Eros's juices flow from the mind, not a pu$$y. If you want to drink from that fountain, you need to go to the source. Anywhere else and you will eventually eat dust as the drought deepens.

What I'm getting to is that your mental state -- attitudes, convictions, beliefs, decisions, motivations, principles, mores (in short, your psyche) -- will play a very large role in the way your life - and sexual life - pans out.

The virtue lies not in abstinence per se, but in cultivating the right attitude to women and sex (yes, there is a right and wrong attitude, despite what libertines say) - and then acting consistently with that right intention. Love her for who she is in her own right and not for what she is or does to you as just another pu$$y on tap.

Soon after marriage, women very quickly (and mostly unconsciously) see through the men who love them primarily for their cvnt. And so they close down until the man becomes unbearably bear-headed with frustration, and fvck only to get the man off their case for another few weeks.

To paraphrase Hegel: right action springs from right intention, which springs from right conviction.

You know where this is going ...

 

[Morgoth]

Why is it the minute you move in together or get married, the sex is klaar?

don't marry, encourage your children not to marry too.

 

[killadoob]

So there is a right attitude and wrong one, not your own one?

What are we robots?

Look if you are not heavily into sex and think sex is not a massive part of a relationship then get married ASAP, but if you think sex is the key to a good relationship you'll end up old and alone with 25 different fleshlights

 

[PeterCH]

Very few men ever think about sex.
We slobber about it, pant for it, dream and burn for it. But that is not thinking.

You already know the most powerful sexual faculty is the mind. Eros's juices flow from the mind, not a pu$$y. If you want to drink from that fountain, you need to go to the source. Anywhere else and you will eventually eat dust as the drought deepens.

What I'm getting to is that your mental state -- attitudes, convictions, beliefs, decisions, motivations, principles, mores (in short, your psyche) -- will play a very large role in the way your life - and sexual life - pans out.

The virtue lies not in abstinence per se, but in cultivating the right attitude to women and sex (yes, there is a right and wrong attitude, despite what libertines say) - and then acting consistently with that right intention. Love her for who she is in her own right and not for what she is or does to you as just another pu$$y on tap.

Soon after marriage, women very quickly (and mostly unconsciously) see through the men who love them primarily for their cvnt. And so they close down until the man become sbear-heaeded with frustration, and fvck only to get the man off their case for another few weeks.

To paraphrase Hegel: right action springs from right intention, which springs from right conviction.

You know where this is going ...

Arthur's quite vile tongued for a father of 3 and a corporate exec but his advice is spot on.

A Pretoria sexologist once told me in a seminar that a relationship which is based solely on sex only lasts about 2 weeks - that's how long it takes you to get used to the novelty of a particular girl's body. After that you start to lust for new flesh.

 

[killadoob]

He is talking rubbish man, i lust after the person i am with, it is just over time they do not lust anymore while i am left lusting like a motherF$%^er only to be turned down time after time, eventually the lust turns to resentment and the relationship ends.

 

[Arthur]

So there is a right attitude and wrong one, not your own one?

What are we robots?

Look if you are not heavily into sex and think sex is not a massive part of a relationship then get married ASAP, but if you think sex is the key to a good relationship you'll end up old and alone with 25 different fleshlights

Yes, there is a right and wrong attitude/belief. Closely connected of course to orthopraxis (right action).

Speaking personally, I had the wrong attitude (and praxis) for years. Of course I didn't think that at the time - or at least I didn't care enough to think about it seriously. In fact, my praxis was my belief. I was so dim it took Major Pain to shake my foundations.

Then I discovered gravity worked whether I believe in it or not. Which lead me to discover an objective universe. I read 3000 books just to find a way to wriggle out. And then, much to my dismay, and with great resistance, every argument I could muster against an objective moral universe was inexorably demolished. It took years.

We are not robots. But we can become sheep and then slaves very quickly. We can surrender freedom, and so sink lower than even robots.

The most common form of bondage for us men is being ruled by our dicks, which is ruled by pu$$y. And even Dr Freud didn't know what women want.

In the end life is riddled with irony and paradox. Few things turn a woman on more than a free man. And the freest man is the one who's not ruled by his dick. To get more sex you need to free youself from dependency on it. Paradoxical. But true.

Life's a battle. And few are harder than this one.

 

[Kim_Webchick]

Ha ha ha ha ha very cute

 

[Guest 20221009]

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