Arthur's quite vile tongued
for a father of 3 and a corporate exec but his advice is spot on.
Peter, I am chastened.
Panta myn kathara tois katharois - to the pure all things are pure. Admisson: I'm a prude, so writing as above is real adventure. Etymologically at least they are not obscene terms. Chaucer used the word cvnt quite liberally (it is itself a euphemism, and we today have a cognate in 'quaint'). In context, pu$$y is a (loaded, admittedly) euphemism and in this context preferable to medicalised terminolgy. One can argue about fvck. I never ever use it as an expletive or to pepper conversation - that's disgustingly crass.
"Text without context becomes pretext."
For the curious, first steps to liberation:
1) Clean your hard drive and magazine shelves. Yes, the porn has to go. All of it.
2) Clean your mind. Learn what sublimation
really means. Practice makes perfect.
4) Stop having sex with people you are not married to. If you won't or can't, get help, else you will end up deeply unhappy, lonely and untrusted by anyone, even yourself. I know many people like that, male and female.
5) Get the inner man into shape, ie break the cycle of obsess/lust-w*nk/screw-obsess/lust, because this supersizes your inner sexual man ... just as no-one wants a body like a Sumo wrestler's, so you don't want a supersized sexual persona, because it's equally unhealthy and distorted (ie, through an unhealthy sexual diet your inner sexual man quickly ends up just as distorted and supersized and gross as a Sumo wrestler's physical body) Sexually speaking, slim down, get into shape, exercise those little-used muscles of self-control and self-discipline. You will end up much fitter, stronger and capable of much more, sexually speaking.
6) Help others. Do something good really out of your way.
7) Most men can't do this on their own, especially if well entrenched through years of bad habit. Get help.
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