I've had it up to here with women. When we ask you if something is wrong, TELL US! When we ask you what is wrong, TELL US! Dont say "nothing's wrong" or "I dont know". Something is clearly wrong, no, we arent psychic, and yes, we want to know or we wouldnt have asked. And we know that you know exactly what is wrong. We arent stupid.
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Women - the worst communicators!
- Thread starter Ancalagon
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Y'all Qaeda
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You're new to the dating game aren't you?
Lol. You sound like you're looking for a problem to solve. You're clueless, mate.
She wants you to pay attention, to listen, and to be nice to her. Don't look for what is wrong, just be there for her, however long it takes. She'll eventually open up and try fix you.
Hehe
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blaaislaai
Executive Member
Women are like that yes.. get used to it!
I know to try to avoid "try solve every problem instead of listening"
But in the meantime I've had to put up with her being well, plain unpleasant to be around for the past month or so. Not nearly as nice as when we first started dating. Today she finally tells me I make her feel like an irresponsible child. Great. If you'd told me that a month ago, maybe, just maybe, I would have stopped treating you like an irresponsible child, if thats really what I'm doing. But no, lets just not say anything and see if Ancalagon took his psychic pills today. Lets wait for the problem to get worse.
I get the whole problem solving vs listening, but I dont think it should apply to our relationship. There is a PROBLEM, its not working, but she wont talk about it. So theres nothing for me to listen to anyway. The problem vs listening applies to having a bad day at work or fighting with a girlfriend (referring to her fighting with one of her girlfriends). It shouldnt apply to our relationship.
@G64
Fairly new, yeah.
But in the meantime I've had to put up with her being well, plain unpleasant to be around for the past month or so. Not nearly as nice as when we first started dating. Today she finally tells me I make her feel like an irresponsible child. Great. If you'd told me that a month ago, maybe, just maybe, I would have stopped treating you like an irresponsible child, if thats really what I'm doing. But no, lets just not say anything and see if Ancalagon took his psychic pills today. Lets wait for the problem to get worse.
I get the whole problem solving vs listening, but I dont think it should apply to our relationship. There is a PROBLEM, its not working, but she wont talk about it. So theres nothing for me to listen to anyway. The problem vs listening applies to having a bad day at work or fighting with a girlfriend (referring to her fighting with one of her girlfriends). It shouldnt apply to our relationship.
@G64
Fairly new, yeah.
D3nz
Honorary Master
Lol...It's a women thing. We're always gonna find something to be upset about.
I must disagree on this poitn i actually dotn want to know but i know shes going to tell me sooner or later
You will find out soon enough what is in fact wrong... The time between you asking whats wrong and her telling you whats wrong is directly proportional to how upset she is.
DigitalSoldier
Honorary Master
Where's Voicy?
Oh he's in your sig
I must disagree on this poitn i actually dotn want to know but i know shes going to tell me sooner or later
Oh he's in your sig
Their fights must be EPIC! I smell a new reality TV show!
Bwahahahah! spot on!
Kornhub
Blackburn Fan
Had an ex that would do that.Then she would flip when we get home instead of just telling what I did in the first place so it would of been sorted.
Mila
Honorary Master
You should know what you did...
This is exactly why I say women are bad communicators, despite rumours to the contrary. Who do you learn this stuff from? Your mothers? Dont give me the "its a natural female instinct" thing.
Budza
Executive Member
In a nutshell.
Mila
Honorary Master
No its a male thing. We ask and ask and ask ( or tell tell tell ). When ignored several times I stop asking you should know what you did. If we ask to many times we are nags.
Take your pick.